Big woman?

Yeah I know this is strange[for some people,I find in normal]I love woman with alittle meat on there bones.I know alot of men don't and alot of other people make fun of woman that are big.But the way I see it you are beautiful no matter what.I can't stand seeing woman who think that they are too fat and need to lose weight go through the stress and torment of trying to do so.I wish that people would stop judging other in ways like this.I see nothing wrong with you or your size.A couple of old friends of mine made fun of people like this and I never talked to them again cause they were the true ugly ones.I am not sure if there is even a point to this post I just have an odd attraction I guess lol.That and I felt like typing on here lol.

 

Hey Maritorius
I know also one more man, who likes litlle bit more rounded womans. And he is happily my own man.:smilielol5: Im not really small girl, but he loves me like I am, and even more, cause im not too thin. That is also good reason to not loose weight, cause then I would maybe make him very sad man. Also in bed he likes my big places to take a good crip.lol

 

LOL.I am the same way.I hate it when people judge other people off of there looks.I know that certain people can't help it but still.I judge people on there insides and how they treat other people,not how they look.Too many people these days focus on the littlest things these days and it makes me sick.Maybe I am just alittle old fashion[But I am only 18 lol]and I think that people should just be happy the way that they are.I understand some people wanting to set goals for them selfs and loose so much weight by the end of such and such,but they should do it for them selfs not other people or because they are afraid that people will make fun of them.I love Big beautiful woman or as Monique says Phat lol.

 

the media is aimed to make women sick..to throw up there food, take pills, drugs, starve there bodies of nutrients so they can look like the girls that are glorified in the magazines and tv shows and movies..Be healthy and be good to your bodies....and you will be beautiful no matter what.

 

Those girls in the magazines typically don't even look that way in real life. Not that they're ugly, but Photoshop is usually done to erase any blemishes like acne, scars, double chins, etc.

 

good to see there are still some men out there who like a little meat on womens bones :]

 

The way I see it is this.

Obesity is not a good thing, ever, it's unhealthy and lowers your self esteem and rightly so.

If YOU honor yourself, you owe it to yourself to get your ass out and lose the weight.

So that's why I feel fat chicks are just content with being fatties, and that's a turnoff for me.

Most fit girls I know actually go to the gym regularly and eat healthy, they make an effort to look good and that makes them that more attractive.

 

I agree with Max 100%. I like women who are their ideal body weight, not the super thin model. I'm right at my ideal body weight and I've got curves.

We should also keep in mind that there is a difference between curvy women, and fat.

 

Your 100% right! Fatties turn me off like nothing else. I don't understand why a woman (or anyone for that matter) would want to be a 200+ pound whale. It's fucking sick, unhealthy & disgusting. I have no respect for anyone that is fat as fuck and does not even try to loose some weight (lazy ass fucks)!

 

There's nothing wrong with being proud of who you are... until it gets to be bad for your health. An extra 100 lbs on anybody would wreak havoc on their insides and their knees.

 

I am the same way, I love bigger girls for some reason too. I don't think I've been with a girl without a little (or a lot) of meat on their bones. And yes I have been made fun of for it, but those people who are poking fun can fuck right off, they're not the type of people I want around me anyways, I like what I like.

 

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Before you judge someone, look on the inside first; then the outside might not seem so bad.

 

The beauty is within, not without. I just don't like it when I gain a little weight.

 

Yeah I definitely find myself attracted to girls who aren't neccessarily as thin as most feel they should be. I've never been attracted to the whole heroin chic stick thin look because its just so incredibly unnatural. In my mind it is of paramount importance that she is comfortable with her own body. I definitely think that some girls are much more beautiful and natural looking when they don't starve themselves.

 

do you mean chubby or more like curvy?

 

when a girl feels comfortable with herself she acts confident. confident looks sexy on almost everybody. men and women are exactly the same in this respect.

 

Oh, here we go again. Yes, inner beauty and a good personality are important. But if I'm not also physically attracted to someone but I like their personality, I call that a friend, not a lover. I personally don't find myself attracted to people who are overweight. Probably because I spent a lot of time being obese, and prefer to live healthy rather than unhealthy, and a fat body reminds me of my ill health. Most people who are obese but think they're "being healthy but just can't lose weight" are in a huge amount of denial, just like I was. I ate healthy foods, but I ate way too much of them and didn't exercise enough to burn off what I was eating, thusly I was fat. Sexually speaking, most people are attracted to mates who look healthy. I'm not into guys who are super-scrawny, but a nice height-to-body mass proportion is very attractive. Of course if I like a guy's looks and then he turns out to be an asshole, then I no longer find him attractive

 

I completely aggree, sea of grass, i mean its only natural to be attracted to a healthy person, almost instinctively. I wish the media would stop glorifying such an unhealthy lifestyle, completely warps our vision of beauty.

 

One thing that doesn't get mentioned very much is that sometimes people who are naturally thin get made fun of for how thin they are. As a culture we place being thin as a beauty ideal, and then make fun of those who fit it (somewhat). What a mixed signal to send! It's never okay to poke fun at someone for their body, fat or thin.

There also seems to be a mentality of late in the "fat acceptance movement" that thin women aren't "real" or that they're all superficial, waspy bitches. I know fat people who will spend a fortune on new clothes, makeup, hair, etc. but won't spend a minute exercising or eating right to actually take care of their body in a healthy way. I find that someone who doesn't fuss too much w/ expensive makeup, clothes, etc. but takes care of their body is infinitely more attractive, even if their clothes are older or not as "in style" or if they wear no makeup or don't spend a bunch of money getting their hair done.

I think it all boils down to choice in the end. Some people have fast metabolisms and can eat crap food and not gain weight - they're still unhealthy - your arteries can still be clogged even if you're thin. Some people, like me, don't have the luxury of being able to eat what they want and have a thin physique. Since I like being slim (less body pain, more energy, etc.), I have to actually work for it and watch what I eat. If I slip, I usually end up gaining weight back. I choose to live a healthy lifestyle every day. I often get teased for it, I get called the "health food nazi" sometimes by family and coworkers...but if I weren't that way I'd still be morbidly obese, and I would rather be healthy.

I also just prefer the aesthetic of thinness on myself and prospective partners. I'll reiterate that personality is just as important as looks, but they both have to be there for me to be interested. Also, if I find out later down the line that a person has other unhealthy habits (alcohol, smoking, etc.) that's just as much of a turnoff as the person being overfat.

Also I want to impress that in recent years I've noticed less and less of the "super thin, no muscle" physique being lauded as ideal and more of the models I've seen on magazines, etc. (not that I pay that much attention to such things) are more muscular than they used to be. I think some fashion designers still like the bony physique, but that's becoming a rarer and rarer breed. A lot of celebrity women we idealize as sex symbols these days look more like they work out a lot, not like they starve themselves (and there IS a difference in looks between someone who starves themselves and someone who eats a balanced diet and works out).

 

more power to men like you guys... i am 5'2" and had gotten up to 155 for awhile and my husband never complained one bit...though he is happy with my new 122lb frame as well..he loves me for me and that's how it should be