Hey I am new here and I have a question for anyone with the answer. I was with a girl not to long ago who had a pain in the ass small clit but no fear I found it with a little help from my index and my tongue and it paid off. However when ever I touched it with a finger (no matter how wet) she had to push me away it tickled so much. This is not the first time I have come across overly sensitive clits but selectively sensitive?
It's probably a question of texture and pressure, if your tongue was fine and yet your finger wasn't. Fingers are a lot rougher textured than your tongue, and the pressure/angle may have been better. Make sure your nails are cut, and just ask her what feels good. Btw, don't fucking criticize a girl over her clit size. It's what she was born with, us chicks have no control over genetalia size, just like you have no control over what size your dick is.
Hey thanks for the input I tend to keep my nails cut short and I thought about the texture thing but I tried everything I could not get near it. I was not criticising the size I just mentioned it because it may have been important + I like a challenge anyway and it was actually a very nice piece of genitalia.
Try touching her clit not directly, but with even pressure over the shaft (through the hood) with the flat parts of several fingers laid together. Like this: If you're making out with her, reach down with your fingers pointed toward her feet. Rub her clit about a half inch to an inch or so higher than were the top of her vulva makes a V. If you have ever seen a diagram of the clitoris, you'd know it's actually sort of wishbone-shaped, and the two forks of it go down inside her bent back double against the way the "head" points. And the head is just that -- the head. It means there's a shaft that goes up above her whole vulva, and it is sensitive to pressure from outside. Different girls will feel/enjoy pressure there to varying degrees, of course. Sometimes if you see a girl masturbate, she puts direct stim on her clit. Other times a girl will use the flat of her fingers and rub circles on this "above" spot that I'm talking about. Take your cues from however SHE does it. Make that part of some night's activities: each of you masturbate for the other, either one at a time or even together. But watch each other, and learn how the other does him/herself. Then emulate that, and you'll be all set! It's hard to do a person better than she does herself! So do whatever she did to herself, to her. -Jeffrey
Thats some top notch adivice sadley I dont see her much any more but that will come in handy for future. The only flaw is she is unsure of what she likes yet she thought her clit was inside her.
