First Time Anal??my Stupid Azz Bf Wants 2 Do It...

hey pppl..i just joined this thing cus its def "helpful"lol..has alot of info,about alot of subjectz..wel n-e way..my bf wants to try anal really bad..im not into it at all..im kinda scared

so yea,ima do it but b4 i do i wanna know HOW..if theres anythin special i gotta do 1st..

 

Yeah, there is something quite special you gotta do 1st. Apply lots of lube.

 

Also make sure to take a dump at least 2 hrs before and you might want to take an enima so the pipes are free of debris (lol) but yeah - you will be fine. Make sure he takes it nice and slow so that you can atleast try to enjoy it....after a while you will love it...I hope I helped. Let us know how it goes.

 

If you don't want to do it, then don't do it. If he doesn't respect your decision of not wanting to do it then he is an ass, you need to dump his ass.

 

Absolutely. Don't do it you don't want to. My wife isn't interested, and I respect that. She knows I'd like to, so I'll do her from behind and she says stuff like, "fuck my ass" etc. and I just fantasize.

Occasionally, I'll just put my cock between her cheeks, with the head just pressing against her asshole, or barely in there and I jerk off. That's sort of a compromise.

 

Why would you do it if you don't want too? It's going to make it painful for you because you'll be so tense. If he doesn't respect the fact that you aren't into anal then tell him to fuck off and find a guy who does.

 

I agree, if you don't want to do it, you're partner should just respect that. Not all girl wants to do anal. I think pornography has gotten into the heads of all males that they need to have anal.

I say at most try it, just to see if you like it. Some girls I've tried anal with weren't that interested, but during oral I would stick my tongue deep in their ass, and they would see it feels good, and they would be interested in trying more things like fingers and eventually penetration.

There are plenty of threads on here with for advice with anal, but honestly, it's your body, and your bf needs to respect that. Why don't you flip the script, suggest sticking something up his ass.