I dont follow concepts like friend requests , guestbooks and the like. Infact I only recently discovered em. Friends means being friends with someone.Being nice , supportive , having fun , being there , helping when u need to.And it means just being sociable. PS ZIlla , ok I'll stop sending pics of my cock under a magnifiying glass...
hmm on myspace or here? mostly its loserss looking to add me to up their number of friends or creepy guys whacking it in their sigpics. lol
I don't have myspace or facebook so I'm not used to people adding you as a friend just to have a name on their list.. that's kinda weird to me. When I think of adding someone here on HF it's because I think they're cool or like them from what I've seen of them online. And I usually don't send a request unless I've interacted with someone and it feels like we get along. I'll accept anyone unless I really dislike them and that so rarely happens with me. Plus I figure it's a good friendly gesture, and it's possible we could communicate more as times goes on. But yeah it's weird to me to get a request from someone that I've never talked to before, and then never hear from them after the request. WTF? Sometimes I think of deleting them but I guess I don't care enough one way or the other to take the time to do it. Who knows though, one of these days if I feel like purging.... lol! People are strange though, you just never know what they're thinking. LOL! Online especially... something said and perceived wrong and then there's a funk going on. A bunch of stupid drama. Who cares really? I think once in a blue moon if I feel like some kind of rejection took place I'll pout for a moment, but then realize it doesn't matter. It's either a misunderstanding or the issue isn't worth spending any energy on.
no, i haven't turned down any requests and i don't see any reason that i would. i don't really use the friend list for anything except to see who's currently online occasionally. if i like someone, it's nice to know they're online, and if i hate someone, it's nice to know they're online, so there's no reason to reject either of those types. i do also have a couple friends whom i don't really know who they are; but having them on my list doesn't hurt me in any way, and i assume they added me for some reason, so why not?