So today, I ate/fingered my girlfriend out for the first time. It was also the first time i have ever done either of those things period. I just did what felt natural to me and what i had see previously (thank you porn). Apparently I did a good job, she came at least twice and told me it felt really really good and had one of those- wow smiles on her face. Anyway- how does this rank up to the first time you ever did this? As in did you completely suck at it? or did you bust out of the gate a born sex machine.
My first girlfriend was very sexually charged so I don't think I was a natural born sex machine, but I figured out what to do quick enough to give her what she needed.
It's quite intuitive, in my opinion. Congratulations on having a succesful first time. Don't get overconfident though, clearly your girlfriend is quite receptive. Not so for all girls. I've had girls have triple orgasms with hardly any effort on my part, and then I've had girls who had simply accepted that they would never have an orgasm and so they weren't into it, and thus would not have one no matter what I did or how hard I tried.
My current girlfriend cannot orgasm for the life of her, and my ex could orgasm in 13 seconds (Yes, I timed it.) It just depends on the person, A LOT... sucks.
