Anyone other guys here had this? I've had it a few times and found that once it comes on (without warning) its literally a real ballache, ejaculating dont take it off either it still stays there afterwards. I think theres also a female form of this too called blue labia, any ladies like to add anything please feel free.
Yeah I've had something like that, it was during sex and I was really close to getting off and he beat me too it lol. My kegel muscles locked up and I basically felt stiff....kinda....down there. It was really painful. We tried to have sex the next day and it took me twice as long to get warmed up.
My *blush* masturbatory schedule precluded any occasion for the balls-O-mine to keep their product. Still does.
"masturbatory" seems like a big word that is way beyond you. Are you sure you are using it in the proper context? Maybe you should research your grammar a little more. I do give you the credit that you are familiar with the root of the word.
Blue balls is when you get real excited but don't get to blow your load. Like if your girlfriend is making out with you and you get a boner, but she won't let you fuck her. You go home with a dull ache in your balls, almost like you got kicked there but not as bad. I agree that beating off later doesn't help.
I had it twice, once in the back of a van with this babe - god damn she had nice titties !!! The other time a girls orgasm cured it !! Quite a painful experience, not something i would like to repeat.
Blue balls is horrible. My girlfriend kept teasing me on and off for about 6 hours. Eventually my balls hurt so much I couldn't walk, and them just HANGING there caused HORRIBLE pain.. bad bad bad experience.
Only men with weak testicles can be afflicted with blue balls. I myself have balls of steel therefore I have never had blue balls nor will I ever.
its because you never get horny, thats why you never had blue balls if you get all erect and ready to unload and have it abruptly interrumpted, IT WILL HURT it dont matter if it is was wanking in bed and you hear your mom comin to your room, or nailing a hottie and you hear her husband entering the house but hey, if you got artificial nuts, more power to you
Hmmmmmm, I bet if you looked at naked men you may get blue balls and that at may answer some questions of your own personal sexuality...
Well I'm in my mid-thirties and have fucked plenty of times so I would say I have been horny at least on occasion. On many occasions girls and I have spent the whole course of a day off and on with foreplay and teasing. This consists of an approximate 12 hour period for me of off and on erections without orgasm until the end of the 10-12 hour period from the first erection. I have never had blue balls or any kind of pain whatsoever from not achieving orgasm from an erection or multiple erections. I've been rock hard and went soft plenty of times without pain. Other times I have been just plain horny with no release for days. Still no pain. What's the difference if it's "abruptly interrumpted" as you say? I mean if you are trying to tuck a full raging hard on into your jeans and escape out a second floor window, then hell yeah that's gonna hurt. But that's not blue balls. Sorry if this makes my testicles superior to yours, but it's really nothing to be ashamed of. I'm sure I am not the only guy that is immune to this horrible affliction that some of you guys like to whine to the ladies about.
Haha, good one. So I guess this reply is a lame attempt on your part to make a gay joke? For all you knew (or not), I could have been gay to begin with as I never mention my sexual preference in my original post. Then would you have said "I bet if you looked at naked women you may get blue balls and that it may answer some questions of your own personal sexuality..."? I'm thinking probably not, because I doubt you would have found any humor in that without the gay annotation.
I had them when in my late teens, playing around at a girls house getting sexually aroused with no release. I limped home almost doubled over with pain. Couldn't move 'em or touch 'em. I did gently jak off and it eventually subsided. For me the pain was as bad as being kicked in the nuts.
Well I've been kicked in the balls before so I definitely know what kind of pain that is. If that is what blue balls feels like then I considered myself to be blessed. I would not wish that kind of pain on anyone.
Me and my ex-girlfriend came to the conclusion that blue balls were fake. Probably a mental or psychological problem. Just dont be so concerned with giving yourself a release, and you wont be so disappointed when you don't finish that it manifests into physical problems. I've never had blueballs, but I can control my expectations about sex. Its all in your head.
So, while still in your youth and lacking a certain experience, you can pass judgment on its validity and declare with great certainty that it's all in our heads? I was not expecting any release when the blue ball pain hit me. It was 1962, I was 17 and wrestling on the couch with a girl at her home where we had absolutely no intention of getting it on. There were standards of propriety in those days (I was among those who trashed those standards a few years later). So, the blue balls were a naturally occuring phenom that hit me quite by surprise. Therefore, with just my anecdotal empirical knowledge of the occurence, I'll venture that it was not in my head but in my scrotum. There have been other anecdotal accounts on this thread who will probably agree with that assessment. OK, if our anecdotal pain is not enough, argue with others who have actually figured it out: From Discovery Health "When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state. This uneven blood flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent. If the male reaches orgasm and ejaculates, the arteries and veins return to their normal size, the volume of blood in the genitals is reduced and the penis and testicles return to their usual size rather quickly. If ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion. This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, ..."
