I turned down sex twice in the past fortnight.. I just want to wait till I've actually had a steady relationship.
I think its perfectly reasonably to turn down sex with somebody that you don't like. I tried to explain this to my housemate and he pretty much said "Well, if you do them from behind then you don't have to put up with their personality do you?".
If somebody doesn't intellectually stimulate me, then they don't stimulate me sexually either. Therefore sex for the sake of sex is pretty boring as far as I am concerned.
lol... funny enough, she bores me because she's TOO intellectual. she wants to be a career academic. i'm just not about that shit. she's 19, and already has about 5 more degrees than i probably ever will. it's just classic incompatibility. she called... i didn't answer the phone. i'm proud of myself. i'm starting to grow up i think.