people... possibly men can answer females tooo! ive been with my bf for 2 years just over.... and we do have our moments were we argue like any other couple!... but lately its just been ups and downs... he works away and has to stay in a hotel with his mates... i tried to get hold of him the other day and i felt like he was ignoring me... i sent him 5 texts and phoned him on the second call he answered i never do this i normally wait, and i just acted all weird with him on the phone kept asking if he was okay.... ive annoyed him because the way i was on the phone and he said i was hard to talk to.... his told my friend that im starting to annoy him with the way im being with him as if thier should be a problem all the time and that if i carry on there will be one! the outcome was thats his annoyed with me and not in the mood to talk to me right now ive text him saying sorry but nothing as yet... what do i do? how long does it take for a male to not be so annoyed with a female lol?
Hun, 1st of all try not to care much about a man, and if you do pretend you don't. It's sweet and all, but most men find that stuff annoying an "unsexy". I'm gay, and I rather pretend I dont' give a damn about them, even if actually I do, otherwise they may feel we're getting too dependent on them. I guess the "less is more" thing works better. On the other hand, if you're unable to trust him and trully feel there's some kind of reason not to, then you better ask yourself if he's the right guy, or if he's worth your time.
I don't know you that well so this may be way off target. But here goes: You sent him five text messages and phoned him twice. Then you sent him a text message. Again. Give him what he obviously wants, which is space and silence. This is not to say that you shouldn't communicate with him at all, or vice versa. But some people (myself included) will find it annoying if you keep calling or sending text messages. Every now and then is fine and sweet, but like coffeescent says, he may feel you're getting too dependent and clingy.