What is it that attracts you to a person ?

To be in a relationship with ( not a one night stand), ?

 

spiritual, physical, and mental connections....


nice eyes, nice bod, great smile, good sense of humor

 

bahahahhahahha, or that^^^^

marie you're fiesty today.....

 

Yeah...I tend to get that way when I get introverted. When you see me on here a bunch, I am in that week period when I can't handle interacting with people....because everything pisses me off. So I have to entertain myself through my fiestiness. I can't take it out on people so I have to sublimate it into humor

 

outgoing, smiley, polite, lovely eyes, love for music and history.

 

truthfully though....it is all about the connection. I'm with Mary on this one.

I like someone who has heart Makes me laugh! Loves nature. Loves life. Poetic. Sensitive. Depth of character. Intelligent.

Body type doesn't really matter to me because I am no prize

 

I tend to do the same thing....

I vent a lot on here through sarcastic meaningless posts, keeps me sane and level IRL

 

ultimately if the person can make me laugh my ass off, and I'm somewhat attracted to them physically...

we'll have some good times

:cheers2:

 

well yeah, attraction is necessary....but for me, most attraction comes through their character. Though I have been with some that weren't that attractive physically to me....and I found every excuse to get outta the relationship. So I guess I fool myself.

 

I tend to think that most guys (bi) go for appearance and body image over anything else, they have a hormonal issue that makes them like that, more so than other factors in attraction?

 

most attraction comes out of a persons character, but in my reality theres about 10-20% that is based on physical attraction/chemistry...

there has to be something there, or else I just can't bother, they go straight to the friends barrel....which is probably a much better place to be given my lack of ability to navigate relationships

 

hahaha....you funny. Most men in my life have always been friends. I have a hard time seeing them as anything but a friend once they have become one.

 

Me three!

 

i agree ... that does it for me

 

I think for me I'm very attracted to intelligence, wisdom, kindness, uninhibited sexuality/sensuality, good sense of humor, honesty, talent/creativity, ingenuity, passion, a FREE SPIRIT, and someone unconventional and emotionally mature. I feel really lucky because my husband embodies all those characteristics and he's really my dream man. Plus he's good looking which is a bonus.

But, I've learned that I can be very attracted to someone who is not considered good looking by society's standards, although they must be attractive to me in some way. There's a certain look in the eyes, a sort of intelligent intensity that I find irresistible. Also, what really really melts me is capacity for deep love and compassion.

What I find interesting, though, is as far as sexual attraction you just never know what or who will make you tick. I think it's a matter of chemistry which you really can't predict. I've seen good looking guys with very unattractive women (and vise versa) , and sometimes there must be something there between them. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.