How long dating before having sex?!

How long do you think you should date someone before having sex with them? STRICTLY OPINION!!

 

Until you can trust them completely.
And feel ready.

 

When I'm ready. With my SO we waited 3 weeks.

 

2 hours.

 

right after proper introductions (such as "hi! I'm___....wanna fuck?")

 

When you feel comfortable with them and the moments right.

 

I would want to wait until I felt close enough to want to do that with them, and trust them enough. I won't have sex with them if we aren't committed, and that would take a little time. But if I liked him enough to be his girlfriend I'd probably jump his bones the moment we became official.

 

wait till your inlove

 

i waited 7 months to have sex with my ex boyfriend.

but after that i was just having sex with whoever asked. like what mary was talking about.

 

If I did that I would still be a virgin!

 

i found out the next day my new possible of only 1 week wanted to kiss me. then, of course the "moment" was over.

 

I'd say give it a month.

But personally I'd wait until I knew how she felt about abortions because you know... accidents happen.

 

I wouldnt consider it dating unless you're doing it already.

 

I'm not even commenting on that

 

yeh we`re kinda "rasslin" about that very issue @moment. it can really twist itself in a knot. first of all, it really doesn`t pay in some cases to be "old-fashioned". ok, how in hell can a man nowadays initiate something beyond kissing on the neck? it`s almost impossible. of course there are other factors involved here, i don`t wanna get too personal. i`m kinda stuck @ that point, perhaps even not kissing anymore. though i don`t wanna back-off cuz there are vultures waiting. but i`m right there "kinda" living with her. though i can`t live there very long because she`s on section8 housing & under guardianship. we`re actually both going nuts & losing sleep.

 

well i waited 6 months with my last boyfriend (he was my first) and 2 days with my current one

sometimes i wish i would have waited till i loved my current one, but it's all good because i'm totally in love with him now and we're really awesome for each other. personally, i think people should really wait until they're in love though.

and by the way, just to try and justify my actions, me and my current boyfriend had worked together for almost 2 years before we got together.

 

This all depends on sexual experience and age. If the girl is a virgin give her some time, if she's not and you've been dating over a week you should really make a move that is of course if you are out of high school.

 

Yeah, all depends on the person and sexual experience as stated above.

I've been with women that wanted to wait, others in minutes/hours.

 

I wait until the test results come back.

 

my bf and i started having sex before we started dating. we've been together for 15 months and have an apartment together