I am bi... i did something for the first time

And wanted to tell someone about it!

Hi, guys. I am new here and wanted to describe my story. I have given/received oral from a handful of guys secretly over the years. Very, very little experience with it. But one of my biggest fantasies is to be fucked. I've been really scared of it at the same time I've fantasized about it. And I've done this for years. Just thought about it, but never found the right guy. Except once, I found out later my friend wanted to do it, and I did too, but we got our wires crossed and both thought neither wanted it! Life is funny. So anyway, I am a white guy and I hooked up with a black friend of mine that I never knew (and would have never guessed!) that he was bi. I asked him if he was a "top" (I'm still pretty new to the lingo) and he said, "when the guy lets me, yeah." I thought, oh hell, this could be perfect.

Sure enough, we get into the action and am sucking each other, and I ask him if he wants to fuck me, and he says yeah. So I'm freaked with excitement and a little fear, too. He gets behind me, and I feel him lubing me up. It really reminded me of how you finger a girl to get her wet. So then I feel his body move close to mine, and a little pressure back there (not unpleasant), then the next thing I know he's groaning and I get this sensation that is hard to explain, but it feels kind of good. I was shocked! So he's now moving inside me, and next thing I know he slaps me on the ass (lol, yeah really, but it was cool at the time). We get interrupted by his landlord, and I was worried he wouldn't want to get back into it, but it was all good. Next thing I know, he's pounding me and I'm struggling to stay in position. He went for a good 10 minutes I guess, then he really pushed HARD against me a few strokes and came. It was freaking great!

Nothing hurt at all yesterday, but today I have felt a little (just a teeny bit) of discomfort here and there. He said his cock was 6.5" ahead of time, but it looked more like 5-5.5" to me. I wonder what an average person can take comfortably? My friend from college--the one that we got our wired crossed, has something like a 7-8" cock and I'd love to hook up with him, but I haven't seen him in a long time and I am still afraid of that big a cock, even with my good experience yesterday.

So anyway, hope that wasn't too boring. It was a big deal to me! What fun I have wondered across here.

-B

 

I just recently realized I was bisexual when I spent time in jail. Other than giving and recieving a couple of bj's in my life I've never done anything. I'll admit its a scary idea for me to get fucked by another guy. But I also agree I sometimes think quite hopefully about it. Glad that your first experiance was so good. I hope mine will be too when the time comes.

 

Good luck!

Btw, that jail experience sounds really interesting... care to tell us about it??

You see all this stuff on tv. I'm curious what reality is really like.

 

didnt it hurt when he was fucking your ass, what does it feel like, i mean when u are there getting fucked, is it the pleasure of the guy doing it to you getting u off, are all gay men erect when haveing sex, i mean the reciever

 

Wow, great story... I look forward to hearing more of them. Especially the jail stories.

In fact, I had my second experience this weekend with a guy I met on Craigslist. He wouldn't show me his picture no matter how much I tried getting it out of him. This went on for a couple of weeks, and finally I said "what the hell, go for it". My first experience was with a white guy about a month ago, which ended up with us giving oral and me topping him. Because I wasn't about to take his 3 inch wide cock up mine... So anyway, this black guy I met was the same age as me, a little bit shorter, and a pretty boy. He wasn't what I expected, but nonetheless, I was very happy with what I saw. He says he's only been with a guy once when he was 18 and bottomed, but since then he didn't do it again.

So when I came inside, we sat down and shot the shit about television shows and mutual likes. Then I told him to whip it out. He wasn't too sure of what to do at first - and recommended that we bump and grind. Instead, I much rather take his cock in my mouth and go at it. I took my time and savored the moment, because I wasn't sure when the next time I'd get it again. So I stopped for a minute and he laid on top of me, kissing my neck and chest. I was a little unsure what he wanted to do next, so he got up and said we should go to the bedroom. We stripped down and headed there. He's a little lighter than me, but it was quite a site to see us two black men together getting it on. So I sucked him a little more and got into the 69 position with me on top of him. He sucked me for only a brief moment, but I kept it up. Then I started licking his nuts more and licking his scrotum. With my chest rubbing against his hard cock, he started to moan and shot his load on his stomach. He said he was embarrassed about the whole thing, and that he was sorry that he came so fast. I was thinking to myself that's something you tell a woman... which I'm clearly not. I said it was cool while stroking his cock with my hand and rubbing his cum all over his cock getting it all lubed up. That's when I climbed up on top of him and started to grind his cock between my ass cheeks. It felt so good, and I was ready to take on my first bottoming experience. But then I wasn't sure if he was into going for round two, so I kept telling him that "it's cool" and we cleaned off. It was all him, and I didn't get mine, so I was a bit disappointed. So we got dressed, sat back on the sofa for a minute talked about how different that experience was for him, and hearing him continuing his apology for cumming after 10 to 15 minutes later. Then he came over to me and mentioned a few things about my muscular linebacker physique. I told him that I get that all the time from people, and hinted that I'd leave if he wanted me to. So we got up and left at the same time.

I was really hoping to have my first bottoming experience, and I think he'd be the guy. His cock was around the same size of mine, except mine is a bit wider darker, and straight, versus curved up. Plus, mine bends downwards if in a semi hardon. Still, I hope we get together again... We seemed to hit it off outside, so we'll see. Guess I'll give it a little time to see if he wants to hook up again. If so, I'll see if he wants to top me.

 

Yeah, all I've heard from girlfriends in the past is how bad it hurt, but nope, that wasn't my experience at all. He lubed me up really good, and it felt weird for just a second when he first put it in, then I just felt pressure. Not uncomfortable at all. In fact, I'd say it was SUPER sexy. I've been craving that feeling ever since. I am hoping to hook up with him again this weekend, probably.

I'm not really gay as I still love pussy , but I can probably still answer that question. I'd say no, all men aren't erect. I actually lost my hard-on while he was fucking me. I mean, it was still exciting as hell, but with all the moving and trying to hold my position all bent over and such, and also with some initial worry that it would hurt, I lost it. At one point, he reached around me and started stroking my cock, which was pretty hot. A lot of the excitement for me was knowing that I was pleasuring another man SO much that he was going to cum inside me. Towards the end, he was thrusting incredibly hard but it still did not hurt. I really want to feel that again soon...

In fact, I talked to my old college friend with the really huge cock last night. I think I am confident enough now to try it with him. I mean, this was my first real attempt at being a "bottom", and it was super easy with a 6" (or so) cock. Now I'm wondering what a 7" or 8" cock might be like. Maybe I am a sadist, but it's extra excitement to me to think about a cock big enough to hurt, while the guy is getting off on it. Just something about it is a turn on. He has always been rough with his girlfriends sexually, so maybe I will let him handcuff me (he's a cop) and do it "his way." I know that will be a turn on for him, and no doubt for me, too.

What's funny is, I am about as masculine looking and acting as a guy can get. What would my friends say if they knew I took it in the ass this weekend and loved it? I guess I am a freak. lol