PEace, the reason why so many youth are negitive is because they get tense near there peers. i say, let your children/grandchildren stay away from there peers alot of the time. a little wont hurt. it will just let them realize how afraid and tense there peers are! see all the negitivlity has worn me down. but i am fixing it now. i dont like slacking off so i am fixing the problem now. i cant think staight or react right when down like this. i found the cure! get into a positive environement at home (spend more time in my room!) later the tired flwoer child
i haven't spent any time with peers since august 3rd and my home is anything but a positive environment.
We all need love, acceptance and positive feedback to grow and feel happy. Sometimes older folks get lost in being negative too. Sometimes you just have to explain things to us, plain and simple.
We all need to find our way. If we have no soft place to land in our home then it is up to us to let others know what we need. If your family can't give that to you for whatever reason, then find your niche. It isn't easy, but people are what they are, we don't know what makes them the way they are, we only know what they share with us. Don't let others be your excuse for not living your life. Most people are alot stronger than they give themselves credit for. Find someone or something that makes you feel good about yourself and share what you have. I had a hard time with people my age when I was growing up, so I found older people who were good role models for me. And I listened. teepi
{{{{{{{{{{CHUCK}}}}}}}}}} was going to do that in the privacy of your rep...but it said I had to spread more around before I could send you something again.....so, man I guess you get a public hug. teep
hehe, thanks i actually like this whole being by myself thing, ive really found myself these last few months.
Peace, has anyone heard from WE lately? i am worried. i havent heard form him in a while. i really need to mellow out and get a grip. i also need to get more sleep. and working on my car takes my mind off how sad i sometimes feel. see the reason i come to hipforums is because its home. its the only place i get enoucragment and positive vibes. but lately ( last 8 months ) have been stressing. ( now that my car is home it is quite a bit easier but i still need to catch up on sleep. ) later the tired flwoer child
I 'd like to say please.. that all the feelings you youngers are having is natural.. it the changing inside of you taking place that confuses you..you harmones are raging andflooding your brain (your child brain) with adult emotions..your child brain doesn't fully understand what's happening yet and has not allocated a balance yet..every emotional burst is just yourselve blooming in to the flower you are to become..everything is a bit out of control..all these mature thoughts poping into your head.. that you don't quite understand yet..seeing things in a different perspective..making your own choices.. having more responsibility.. wanting to be who you are but not knowing exactly who that is.. but wanting to find out..feelings or morbid thoughts.. wanting to die.. wanting to kill.. wanting to love and be loved.. being free to make your own decissions.. all this is sometimes overwhelming, crossing over from childhood to being a young adult.. I just want you all to know that this confussion will pass as soon as your new brain catches up with your bodies.. being an adult doesnt happen overnight for any of us..it's a slow process..we're chomping at the bit ready to run the race..ready to get out there and show the world what we can do..only to be outrun by age and maturity..left in the dust of inexperience..you will all have your chance at the race.. just be ready don't jump out in the middle without knowing the track.. education is the key to understanding and growing.. we elders are still growing and learning..dont waste your youth trying to growup before your ready..these young yrs are the best yrs.. the awakening yrs..charish them..charish your parents (if they arent dispicable).. they wont be here forever..take time my preciouse ones..make sure your wings work before you jump out of the nest.. live life and climb the latter don't try to leap to the top rung the ladder will fall.. one rung at a time.. slow and steady..learn your craft before you try to preform magic.. Bless you all and my your road be an fruitful one.. Blessed Be
Joshua you are now becoming more aware of your responsibilities.Keep up the good work and besure to take your vitamins and get more sleep on the weekends. Also,I sense you have been drinking lots of soda lately. So please don't drink to much soda;its very bad for you..
There's nothing wrong with being by yourself for awhile.It takes solitude to find where your head is at,and where you want it to go.This has been my way for a long time,it works bro.Peace
Amen to that, Brothers. About being alone. I've spent most of my time alone since I was 8 years old. I like my own company. I like doing things by myself. There's no one there to tell me I'm doing things wrong, or that I should think this way instead of the way I think naturally. I've never paid any attention to what others said or thought about me. I've never tried to "fit in". As far as I'm concerned about peers (whatever the hell they are), ... You're either making dust, or eating it. I'd rather make dust. You're doin' good, Freight Train. I see you comin' around to being yourself. Life is like a river. Jump in, roll over on your back and float with the current of your life. You are the only one who can think for YOU. Love, Sam
Peace Sam, you dont know how good it is to hear form you. home, work, and school has been a real drag. but now that i am working on my car i am getting my mind off of my negitive enviornment at home! my old girl needs a gas tank. a new one. when i get the money i will buy one. any way how are you? you ready for winter? weatherman said it should snow sometime in the next 24 hours! later the tired hipster
Yes, we do. It's times like those, that I log on HERE, and spend time with YOU guys. We all need to feel wanted sometimes. At least, WELCOMED. This site gives me those things. I even feel LOVED when I'm on here. That's a real treasure in the world today. It's been said MANY times, the Forum mebers are truly ONE BIG FAMILY. It's true Josh.
Peace Matt, that i why i come on here. because it is my true home. and my car is my project to keep my mind on positive things. Good night Matt. i will try to dream that Kerry won and how happy we will of been. later the flower child that will go to bed now.
i love people, i love being around them, i love talking to them, being with them, i think if people are exposed more, not less, to their peers, then that will be what makes them comfortable, not isolation.
I would like to talk more to older hipsters, who have created this for us to see what there ideals and dreams where, I have always loved the first of this movement and want to know more from the wise eyes and words that have spun off. Basically when I found out what you all did for us and free thought I became one of you and would like to get in touch with real family.
Don't laugh at me, but I think there has been a big shift in the cosmic forces and that the last 8 months (or so) have been hard on EVERYONE. Has anybody else been experiencing this? I have been going through some rough times and having to do things I don't feel ready for and I don't seem to be the only one. We are all in this together.