I'd like some ideas on how to 'service' the elderly men where I live

Hiya,

OK .. here's what's going on. I'm 56 years young, look much younger and have a very 'young heart' .. meaning I'm young at heart.

I'm a very sexual person, currently separated for over 3 years from my husband, who CLAIMS he's still in love with me, but surely doesn't show it as far as I'm concerned.

I've tried everything I can to work on this marriage, and all though he's still only involved with me, it's just not working. I'm exhausted!

I'm usually a fun loving person, and very lovable ... but he's made me very depressed and I'm feeling very useless.

I live in a senior/handicap complex. All though you'd never know it, I have Lupus, fibromyalgia, and other health issues. I try and stay as positive as I can ... but I feel SO unloved and un-needed right now.

There are several elderly men living here, who are alone, their wives have died long ago or in some cases, recently ... and are also lonely. I'd actually like to start some sort of 'sexual sharing' program in my apartment for them, without management or other residents finding out. Many of the residents here know me, male and female ... so I'd need to be discreet.

Any and all ideas are welcomed ...

I have NO idea on how to approach them.

 

So you want some sex, fine. As long as everyone wants to be a swinger thats great but somehow i feel that's not gonna be the case simply because most people aren't into swinging.... it gets difficult emotionally, jealousys and resentments can easily arise.

Be careful and be sensitive to the real needs of others and not just yourself and you never know ...

How to approach them? ... the same way you always approached men.

I have a suggestion ... why not find one guy you particularly like who's up for the 'servicing' thing and just go with that.

 

Unless she truly has a caring heart for others' needs and wants to service as many as she can.

If that's NOT the case...then yes, just find one man to service.

If that IS the case...be discreet and go one at a time and be honest with the mean you service.

 

Hand out business cards.