embarrassing discharge from anal sex

i am 19 years old and first tried anal sex a week or two ago with the guy i have been regularly sleeping with for a few months. we've done it twice so far, and both times there has been a fair amount of brown discharge on the sheets afterward which has mortified me. the first time i was able to clean it up before he could comment, but the second time he definitely noticed and asked me why i "shat on the bed". he seemed somewhat disturbed and angry with me. however, it wasn't feces at all, and i found the same discharge in my underwear when i woke up today. finding the discharge in my underwear doesn't really bother me, but making a mess on his sheets each time does. this time, i even positioned myself at a right angle so my torso was resting on the bed but my knees rested on the floor and somehow the sheets were still covered.

is this normal? is there anything i can do to prevent it? any suggestions at all? i know that "putting a towel down" is an option but that's still embarrassing for me...this guy and i are not really at the stage where we can be nonchalant about things like that in any capacity. we're definitely not past the honeymoon stage yet.

 

Best thing I can say as far this goes, is just give yourself an enema like the morning before or something. that relieves the need for a towel and should make it to where you're not spooging on his bed.

I know how it feels to be embarrassed about stuff like that, but you just gotta remember that everyone's human body is different.

 

It's weird you found it in your underwear.. you sure it's not vaginal discharge with a bit of blood in? That can be brown sometimes.

 

no, i smelled it and it was not discharge mixed with blood. it's so weird and kind of embarrassing!

 

I think if your finding this discharge on a day to day basis, and your sure it's not a vaginal thing that you should probably go to the doctor. Your too young to have stuff like that going on.

 

i'm pretty sure it is vaginal...the only (gross) way that i can explain it is that it's the consistency of regular vaginal discharge except with the faint odor and color of diarrhea. and it only lasts for a day or two after anal sex.

 

i was just wondering if anyone had experience something similar because it seems weird to me!

 

No I havent, and I asked my friend who's into pretty extreme anal and he hasn't either.

 

Stop having anal sex. You said it smells like feces so that's what it is despite how faint the smell is. is he cumming inside you? using lots of lube? either one could be what is causing the leaking.

I imagine that it is embarrassing but you should stop until you are comfortable enough with him that he wont take something like this so offensively.

 

no, he's not going off inside of me, and we don't use lube - i'm still young and have enough lubrication when i'm wet for everything to be comfortable for me. i'm just wondering if maybe my body is adjusting because i'm new to it all?

 

Hmm sounds dodgy, maybe see a doctor, I've heard of peoples 'plumbing' going wrong down there and them ending up pooping out their vag. Although I think that was people who had surgery.. so maybe not. Nah, don't get scared, but maybe get it checked.

 

I am surprised no one has said this yet, but he has no right to get angry at you for this. If potential mess from anal sex is not an option for him, then he really shouldn't be sticking his cock in your ass.

 

I was thinking it. I'm not sure why I didn't say it.

 

Pussies lubricate, cocks lubricate but butt holes don't lubricate, no matter what age you are.

 

i know they don't silly, what i mean is that the lubrication kind of spreads from one hole to the other...if you know what i mean...

 

I was thinking the same thing.

 

ewe cum farts.. hahaahahh..

 

haha uhh no...that's not what this is...

 

im gunna go throw up

 

If sex isn't messy, then you're not doing it right.