Taking too Long

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by Dragonfly, Feb 13, 2009.

  1. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    Have any of you ever been going down on a guy and he just takes way too long to cum? It really sucks there on your knees deep throating and sucking hard you know it feels good to him because he's moaning and growning but nothing it's like he just isn't cumming, then you're like dude what the fuck you have to change positions 3 times and finally finally after some of the worst lock jaw ever he finally spooges! Then you feel all accomplished and proud...
     
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  3. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    Oh well maybe I'm the only one whose ever encountered the guy that just won't cum...
     
  4. Shale

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    Just today it happened to me. I would periodically give my mouth a rest by licking and rimming a little then back to the sucking. Finally happened tho. :rolleyes:
     
  5. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    god yes. it sucks especially when you usually make other guys cum quickly, and the one that takes two hours makes you doubt your skills.
    It was the oldest guy Ive ever been with, maybe that had something to do with it.. lockjaw was a bitch.. a 9 inch, as thick as my wrist dick buried down your throat is not comfy.
    But goddamn it was fun.
     
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    try harder..
     
  7. wally m

    wally m 14

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    kinda sounds like going down on a girl :rolleyes:
     
  8. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Wow nice job though I give you probs for size.
     
  9. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    Yeah that big of a cock down the throat does get a little uncomfy, and hits the gag reflex too much for my likeing.

    However I can deal with gag reflex way better than lockjaw, that shit hurts!
     
  10. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    As I've mentioned before, I do have the problem of post-mature ejaculation due to a side effect of epilepsy medication. The same side effect may be found in many beta-blockers and in most anti-depressants - which is rather ironic in its own right, as not being able to reach a climax without intercedence from self stimulation can be rather depressing in its own right. It doesn't affect the erection, or the ability to maintain it - it just makes it difficult to get anywhere.

    Many may consider having such stamina a blessing - especially those at the other end of the scale, who suffer from premature ejaculation and, at first, it may seem that this is so, with the woman (or man) being able to enjoy the penetration for longer, but you can always have too much of a good thing.

    Personally, whenever I have sex I will continue up to the point when I can tell that my partner is getting close to her (or his) limit, when I withdraw & masturbate up to the brink, when I can feel that I'm approaching my climax. At which point I will renew the penetration for the final few moments, so we may both enjoy the full orgasmic conclusion.

    Another technique I use to help bring about an earlier climax, of course, is when I either know in advance that I will be having sex, or at least know that there is a good chance of the same, I will hold off from masturbating for at least 24 hours in advance - I sometimes try to last longer, but if I set my targets too high I have difficulty in reaching them.
     
  11. Kaori82

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    I've had that happen several times where anything I try sometimes he wont finish... I usually mix in some massaging with my breasts in between the sucking and that gets him more excited. I also ask what he wants me to do so he can cum faster.

    Also just deepthroating doesn't usually make a guy cum, since they are more sensitive around the head.. You need to concentrate there.
     
  12. twistedsister

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    it's happened to me several times~but it's just so much of a turn on to me it's really not a bother~
     
  13. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    sounds all very scientific
     
  14. twang

    twang on the run

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    i've never came from a blowjob. weak.
     
  15. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    Yeah but all guys are different this one could just really like the deep throat more than the head tongue massage.
     
  16. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    Dudes, like head play, but ya gotta go all the way down. Especially ih he is controlling the head movement. It wasnt that it was down my throat all the time, but it was there plenty of it for the 45 minutes it took. it was the thickness really.
    I think guys with big dicks are more fascinated about a girl swallowing it all because its harder. Its hot.
    the phrase "wow Baby, you take it all" comes to mind. lol
     
  17. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Why is it harder for a girl to swallow it all if its a big dick?
     
  18. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    uumm.. Isnt the answer obvious?
     
  19. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    Not nesicarrily, I wouldn't think it has to do with dick size it'd be more ball size, I mean isn't that where sperm actually lives?
     
  20. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    what? Im talking about length and width is harder to get down the throat.. whats ball size got to do with deethroating a penis?
     

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