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Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by username344, Oct 24, 2004.

  1. username344

    username344 Member

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    me and my b/f had sex and we used a condom, but my period didnt come, i am really scared, is there any other reason the period wouldnt come? please help, i am so scared
     
  2. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    go get a pregnancy test and find out. My period stopped for a few years in high school when I wasn't eating enough and I am late this month and I know it's because I was stressed out but other than stress and not enough calories or too much exercise I can't think of a reason it would stop. Get a test soon though.
     
  3. Muscatardkixass

    Muscatardkixass Member

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    its so funny i stumbled across this today, you see im on the pill and i used a condom and i was tripping out but i finall got my period today {6 days late} some times its just off schedule, but ya if your very athletic, or unhealthily skinny it could stop too. It might just skip for no reason at all. i wouldnt trip too much, but ya go get a test just in case.:D
     
  4. kidswillbeskeletons

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    stress is usually the reason. don't keep thinking about it though, because you'll psyche yourself up and stress yourself out and that will keep your period from comming, so just relax. wait a week or two, then go get a test.
    but, if you are under eighteen, I think you should really consider getting on some form of Birth Control pill or others. It's not full proof, but if you take it like your supposed to, it usually works. If you havn't seen a gyno, you probably should, they're really the experts on this type of stuff. Don't be scared, because you could save yourself (and possibly a child) alot of pain and heartache if you talk to a professional. Think about your future.

    In my experience, it took a really close call (i think you can relate here?) to make me really re-think my actions.
     
  5. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    yeah condoms suck I know many people who've become pregnant when using one. The pill makes me feel like crap but it's better than the risk.
     
  6. kidswillbeskeletons

    kidswillbeskeletons Member

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    definitely. havn't we evolved?
    we shouldn't have to have birth control. there should be certain people designated "child bearing" and "non-child bearing " no, that's a little out there. perhaps just we should have more control over our reproduction. that is all.
     
  7. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    lol

    that reminded me of the children's book, the giver... ppl are assigned jobs and spouses and children... really good book, you should read it if you get the chance.

    http://www.randomhouse.com/teachers/guides/give.html

    sorry that was waaaay off topic....

    go see a gyno and get on BC and have a pregnancy test handy for these emergencies, just in case... that's what I would do.
     
  8. gottssunfire

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    stress, depression, insomnia, and appetite can all affect it. i spent 2 months in a constant panic because my girlfriend's pregnancy tests kept coming back negative, but her period wouldn't come. she was also depressesed, and not eating, which probably just exascerbated the problem.
     
  9. zeppelin545

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    Dont worry sweetie go take a test and check it out dont get nervous its happened to me before i got nervous but in the end i was ok.... so dont fret dear but get checked just incase to be sure :)
     
  10. Chubz

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    Because your pencil needs to be sharpened?

    Or maybe the piece of paper is wet.........keep trying, you'll eventually get it.
     
  11. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    I dont understand, if i thought i was pregnant or my period didnt come, you bet your ass i would be in line at the store purchasing a pregnancy test..only way to know for sure, that way your not all worried about it..But i know that some pregnancy test mess up and have clitches and stuff :D
    But periods do tend to be all over the place..sometimes you will start later then usual and some earlier depending on different factors..
     
  12. username344

    username344 Member

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    well my period came but its very strange. not alot of stuff coming out and it seems like it almost gone but usually it lasts longer. i am kinda sexually active. any one can tell me why is it strange..
     
  13. tylerdurden

    tylerdurden Member

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    I read that book, tigerlady. Very intriguing
     
  14. username344

    username344 Member

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    ^^^
    can anyone help me please
     
  15. nitemarehippygirl

    nitemarehippygirl Senior Member

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    stress, would be my first guess. happens to most of us.
     
  16. username344

    username344 Member

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    so that means i am not pregnant?
     
  17. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    go get a damn test already! we can't tell you if you're pregnant or not! sometimes women spot a little when they get pregnant.. so you really don't know yet...
     
  18. nitemarehippygirl

    nitemarehippygirl Senior Member

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    yeah, if you're worried, why not go buy a pregnancy test at your drug store? it's not hard..... and it only takes a few minutes. :)
     
  19. Feawen

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    Hmmm... Don't do what Susie did in Cat's Eye.. if anyone has read that...
    But out of interest, what would kill anything? Whiskey? And do you live in a country where abortion is permitted or outlawed? *puts hand up for outlawed*
     

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