how much do women talk about sex with there girlfriends?

That just sounds odd to me. I think you weren't paying attention to the clues or her energy, or the communication was off, or something. One thing I can say about my relationship is that my husband and I have a very strong intuitive bond and we know each other's moods instantly. We're wired in to each other intimately. We immediately know when something is off or when the other one is upset or not feeling well.

 

I tell my sister almost every detail. She usually listens like a saint, but I'm sure she'd prefer if I kept some things to myself.

 

oh i was paying attention alright.
It's just that people can and do change without warning.
Believe me, there is a lot more to my story.
If you were to know it you would understand.
But this is digressing from the topic.

It’s just nice to see happy loving couples.

Let me know how things are 15 years from now.
I hope better than ever

 

no it's not, obviously. you didn't come here to congratulate us. you came here to vent your bitterness and resentment. thanks.

 

My deal gets better with age. More respect develops every year. I am enriched more and more by my wife as time passes. We have surely grown together. We share blood in our children and watching her with them is amazing. I see ourselves in 15 years being ecstatic about what we have done with our children and we will have our own independent lives back, as our children will be college age. My future is bright.

 

well, it worked out in the end. at least you didn't turn your back on finding happiness and love. so many do.

 

my goodness, won't it be awesome! not having to dog their every step...GO ON VACATION!!!

 

i'm not bitter or resentful.
i'm sorry that is how it read to you.

all i'm saying is that you never really know a person.
that is not a bitter statement but an observation.
in time you will see. and i'm not saying this will happen to you and your mate.

I truly wish you all the very best.

 

Yeah your original post did seem rather sarcastic and insincere to me. But thank you for your well wishes. Things happen as they happen and I know nothing lasts forever. I'd rather my partner be happy, with or without me. And I'm glad at present that it's with me.

 

Vacation? What's Vacation??

 

I want my partner to be miserable without me.

 

You see what you see, I see what I see. I know what it is, I'm no novis. I've done it all, been there twice. From what I have observed and participated in, in my hey day, that most couples that 'share' their partners dont stay together. I realize there are exception to the rule, I was just sayin'. I was speaking more of 'different' parteners role playing , as that is what I understood or missunderstood mama saying. Was not refering to partners games.. I beg your pardon.
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of course.

I don't doubt you're right. And as far as that goes, most couples (monogamous or otherwise) don't stay together. In the end, death will do us all part. Or not. But that's a conversation for the religion and philosophy section.

no need, we're just sharing different perspectives.

 

I'm sure girls talk about their boyfriends and their sex thoughts, but not much of the time. I had a girlfriend who spoke about my bedroom preferences to her flatmate.