how much do women talk about sex with there girlfriends?

now you're just arguing semantics. people naturally repress those things that would cause them difficulty in a social setting. and part of role playing is also to do something outside of character in order to free themselves from self- and socially-imposed roles. in addition, sometimes people will play different roles in order to please and release the people they love from the same restrictions. role playing is not a new phenomenon and in fact is an accepted form of therapy.

now whether or not people perform these roles within or without a relationship is a seperate issue. typically people who are comfortable with themselves and their relationships tend not to look for anonymity.

 

WHAT??!!! better find some otherwise, trust zings out the window and I wont be your girlfriend anymore. LOL

 

huh?

 

be anonymous about our role playing.

 

lol. oh.

you're being too specific. i was being general. to say that people who are role playing aren't being true to themselves and their relationships is a daft concept, i think.

 

I think you're taking this thing too seriously. Role playing is fun, nothing more. Sex can be many things... intimate, loving, lustful, fun, playful... there are many hues and energies that can be expressed there. My husband and I love each other tremendously. Not every sexual experience or encounter we have is going to embody the fullness of it, nor do we need or want it to. It's neither sad nor shallow that we play the way we do. We're not being different people, we express different parts of our personalities in different ways. And when people really love each other... as the foundation of whatever games they play, it's never lonely.

 

sometimes fun is just fun and fun is good for you.

 

Yeah, I've noticed that some people take themselves WAYYY too seriously. They overanalyze and assign too much meaning to things. People also tend to judge what they don't understand.

 

besides, all that stuff she was talking about was explored yeeeaaarrs ago. I know every intimate detail about my wife and then some. I mean how many times can you have deep exploring passionate love making with the same woman? 100 times? 1000 times? 2000 times? Were together 11 years. do the math. Eventually were going to expand. I will even go on to say that role play actually helps you to discover more about that person that you never would have playing 1 year & under "love" making.

 

good point. We're about to celebrate our 10th anniversary this Saturday. :cheers2:

 

Rock on!!! Your guys relationship a great one?

 

that's awesome!

 

oh yeah, it's FANTASTIC! I'm very happily married. We've had our challenges periodically... who doesn't right... but we have always learned from them and got closer as a result. I couldn't wish for a happier marriage. Right now it's the best it's ever been too.

 

AWESOME!!! Pretty much spells out KC and I. Who knew "love" could be so fun, right?

 

easy, too.

 

Yeah, I love hearing about your relationship. It's great to see others who have a really good one. Oh and "love" can DEFINITELY be fun.

 

easy!! yep, good word. It is very easy when it's right.

 

I agree. But then maybe what's easy to me would be hard for someone else.

 

I guess that would be the when it's right part. I totally credit KC for the easy part. I'm an overbearing asshole and KC takes it in stride and not only that, loves me for it too. Imarried just right!!!

 

i'm really happy for you guys ... ya all sound like very loving people happy in your relationships. This is a good thing. Enjoy every moment like it's your last together.

I was with the same woman for 26 years. I loved being married to her. I thought that being with her was the greatest thing in the world. Our relationship was perfect. we could always communicate with one another. had a couple of kids, a house, two cars, a white picket fence blah blah blah. We had everything and plans for the future and working towards them.

Then about a year and a half ago she told me she didn't think she could be married to me anymore and left me. basically just like that. i thought i'd be married till death do us part but it wasn't to be. I thought I would never be able to love another, never as much as i loved her. But this to past.

Today I have a girlfriend that I love more than I could have even known.

I happy to see happy loving married people. I wish you all, all the luck world.
I just know that it's just not for me. Not anytime soon anyway.

Peace