I recently lost my friend with benefit so he could be more focused and shit. He says its for the best but I believe we will always be friends till a while, haha. Anyway I dont see what the big deal is, im young im horney and am on the pill and enjoy oral and sex. But he just doesnt wanna, he says it will help me "move on." But having sex together doesnt mean jack to me other then fun excitment and an activity to explore each others bodies. I guess its a nice way of saying I dont wanna do you anymore or find someone else to have sex with...but then you have to do the whole dating thing again, the first kiss, the first date, the awkwardness and well ya know how it goes. im not looking for a boyfriend, i just wanna have sex with my friend! im so frustrated, but i know its meaningless and doesnt help to whine, but i just though i should let my frustration out.
Yea, that totally blows(no pun intended). If you ever want a fuck buddy you can always come visit me, lol.
I kinda hate women like you. My reason is this, you have a good friend you trust, and I understand that, and you have an easy way of getting off. However women like you seldom actually try and go get a boyfriend, until years later. This is unfair because guys like me, when I was 16-18 or so, who wanted to actually have a girl to have sex with, a girlfriend without too much hassel, you girls didn't want to give us a try. LOL. So I had to settle for getting women who I had to go out with, show a good time, interests, before I got to see any boob. I don't like girls like you not giving other guys a shot. ...lol
im not like that. i rather be in a relationship but it didnt work out with me and my friend. but we're still friends and well everything is pretty good as of a few hours ago. who knows what the later days will bring.
Totally that guys loss, you seem like a really cool girl... The fact that your pretty is just an additional plus haha
On the upside. . . sometimes a lack of sex can motivate us to look for love or a relationship. I know that I'm not big on FWB situations and that my lack of sex/annoyance at masturbation can really make me date more than I would normally be motivated to do. Perhaps you'll find someone amazing from your newfound motivation
He'll get horny and realize what a good thing he had and come crawling back. Friends with benefits is a good concept and pretty much how my circle of friends were in the '70s. No relationships, no dates and such, just two ppl who wanted to fuck ended up in bed or on the floor or under the bushes - wherever and got off. Then they enjoyed themselves and their other friends (all of whom they prolly fucked at one time or another). It was fun back then and I'm glad to see some girls are still into it. Now guys pretty much do this all the time. I have a young man, Raul, who occasionally drops by and we both know that we will be rubbing intimate parts.
I know that whenever i get a girl who is really into me I begin to not give a shit. I alway have to feel like I have the lower hand or else I get uninterested and bored. Maybe thats how it is with this guy.
i always liked the idea of having a fuk buddy, but i am a very emotional female and anytime that i acted on this idea, i always wanted it to turn into a serious realtionship, and i ruined the whole thing......
how the hell does that work (friends with benefits). I would kill to have that. althought i wouldn't want her fucking every Tom, Dick and Harry.
Maybe why fuckbuddy works best for two guys. I have met a few women when I was younger who just wanted me for my ample hardware on occasion, with no emotional attachment other than friends. It was great to just have a sexual good time, then a final kiss (or lick) and go home. That was in the '70s - things were diff then. Now, IDK. Are there any girls who could just come over, fuck you and then go home or to the next guy? I have several guy friends who can do that and enjoy it.
I think it's in the female genetic structure to form emotional attachments, whereas the male is likely to be quite comfortable with the notion having sex quite simply for the sake of having sex - which is probably why you rarely hear of brothels catering for female clients.
I don't usually go for that type of thing; friendship for me has to be asexual. Although I admit I have fooled around with a friend recently. I don't regret it, I even enjoyed it. But no repeats. I recently lost my virginity and to go from sex for the first time after waiting a long time, to nothing is very frustrating. So I was sexually frustrated. I didn't come, in fact, he actually kind of sucked for someone who's been with a shit ton of girls, lol, but it released my tension and I'm back to a plateau where I can wait for the next love interest to come along.
