gettin on the same page...

So I've been hangin out with this boy and I reallllly like him. He is in love with the Grateful Dead just as much as I am and it's amazing. I really think he is just so cool! We've been having sex and everything since a week or so after we met and it's great. I think we seem to click...but that's the thing. I know he thinks I'm cool too...but I just don't know if it's like "hey let's date". I understand that I'm still getting to know him...but! We both make it seem like we're dating whenever I hang out with him... I just don't know if I'm misinterpreting it. I'm afraid to ask him what he's thinking about us...I know that sounds bad but I've just had so many letdowns...and I reeally really like this boy--so i'll be really upset if he says the old "let's just be friends". Maybe I should wait.. ? Ahh I need help=(