Heya everyone. How would you constitute being bi? I've always considered myself very straight. I like girls, think about girls, and want to date girls. I've dated three girls and have been very attracted to all of them. But for as long as I can remember I've always been completely awe struck by certain guys. I don't know if it's a sexual thing... it might be, or maybe it's more of an admiration thing. For example when I watch a movie I'm often more infatuated with the male lead then the female. The more I think about it the more I wonder if I'm bi. Most gay porn doesn't bother me but it doesn't really do anything for me either. Or maybe I just shouldn't worry about labels.
what you said at the end is whats up. to be honest i dnt believe anyone is completely straight in this world. as in they wont even look at another man or women and be like wow she/he is handsome/cute. or i wonder how it'd feel to be with a guy/girl. sexuality is just natures way to keep the human race alive.but when it comes to feelings everyone just wants someone who will bring out the best in them. i know straight guys who became very close to me and just felt i was more than a friend, so we would date. then after we broke up they would eventually date girls again. girls do this alot as well,straight girls,they go out with lesbians mostly because of how they treat them. so dont worry about things like this, just be you & enjoy life.
Does that mean I might be bi? I mean, I always check out asses, guy or girl, and arms on guys and shit. More of in a ou i like that way than a Damn i wish i was built like that.
its not as simple as gay/straight/bi check the Kinsey Scale out http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale makes more sense to me. but i'd say i was Bi.
But it's really not a complicated as we sometimes make it either. I think the first step to simplifying the issue is to avoid labelling ourselves. There's nothing wrong with being curious about sex with someone of your own gender, and nothing wrong with satisfying that curiosity as long as both people involved are willing participants - (and both are of legal age). When I was in my mid 20's I found myself becoming extremely 'bi-curious'.... It finally got to the point where I just 'had to know', so I began putting myself in position to just sort of 'allow' it to happen if and when the time was right. I started going to places where I was pretty sure it wouldn't be too difficult to find someone - just in case it turned out that I really wanted 'it'. Living in a large city at the time made it fairly easy, but 'it' didn't happen the first time out. My advice is not to rush into anything. Let it happen at its own natural pace - if it happens at all.... Be yourself. Marci
