ok so I don't know much about sex and cumming but I heard the more you masturbate the more tolerance you build so it'll take you longer to cum... which will be good if you can hold out longer during regular sex
At the moment I'm finding it difficult enough to reach an erection, let alone a climax due to one of my epileptic seizures. Although I may be mentally really horny & longing for it, physically it's quite another matter - something that happens every lunar month, and takes up to 10 days to recover. Any other time, however, I find about 10 - 20 mins is about a reasonable average.
i don't know if that is true for males, that they will take longer to cum when with a female as oppsed to righy (or lefty whatever) so how i just bet that a woman feels a bit different from their own hand. now for women, i've just recently been able to find the correct spot to make myself cum, and like i don't know if i'm gonna need another man for a while, LOL, even though men are totally fun to have and i do so enjoy screwing, but i've noticed here lately that men are all about getting themselves off instead of the woman. and it really is a talent to be able to get a woman off, it's not as easy as some men like to think.
I think orgasms are more reliant on self-understanding. If I know what gets me off, I can communicate that to my partner and vice-versa. It's less about your partner's prowess and more about his willingness to listen both to what you say and how your body reacts to the things he does.
and teaching him that just because the actress in the porn likes it doesn't mean women in the real world do lol j/k j/k j/k
When alone it generally takes me about 10 mins - sometimes more - sometimes less (especially if I just want to get the tension released & done with). Needless to say, as with most people some sort of stimulation is greatly beneficial. Normally this is in the form of plain porn videos, but I also like some good Erotica. As well as just reading them I also enjoy writing them, most of which I have uploaded to my Erotic To The End website. It's not a commercial site - no fees / registration or anything like that, just a way of sharing some of my fantasies combined with a few memories.
5-10 minutes w/ lotion. Can extend it if I have time but most of the time I do it in then shower so I have to be quick. Unfortunately...
If I try really fuckin' hard I can get off in 5 minutes. However, it normally takes me half an hour or more.
depends on how much load is going on, with my machine it can be anywheres between 5 mins and an hour, that's if I am drinking.
