My Girl Is Gaining way to much weight!!

Ok my girl and I have been together 4 years this month. I love her soooo much and we get along really well. When we first me she was a size 18 which was perfect for me cause I like my girls with meat on their bones but I guess because she has gotten supper comfortable in the relationship she now wears a size 24. I have tried to tell her before in a nice way that I was worried about her health (which I am) and it causede a huge argument, I mean huge.But now it has gotten to the point where I don't want to have sex with her and her stamina is not the same either. She is a very butch woman and she is very dominant so if i bring touchy subjects up sometimes it pissed her off. I don't know how to tell her this and it is really effecting our relationship.

 

Maybe start working out together, suggest activities that are physical.

 

Well shes to lazy to do that. I walk about every other day and I try to get her to do it but she works 12 hours a day 5 days a week so she complains that she is always tired, blah blah blah whatever, maybe I will just get someone on the side since shes not paying me no attention, haha. Is that your picture in your sig. hot I have a soft spot for goth girls, theres just sumthing about that pastey white skin.

 

If she exercise a bit she will have a lot more energy actually, and if she take a couple vitamin and mineral supplement too it will helps A LOT.

Both of you should workout a bit, doesnt need much time if you do it every day or two you will have great results after 6 months. Walk for exemple, but if you really want to make a difference eat better and go at the gym and do high rep low weight exercises

 

Okay... first of all, 12 hour shifts 5 days a week is a lot of working. That is enough to make anyone tired. Maybe she has put on weight because she doesn't have time to work out. And the free time she does have, she wants to hang out with you. Not work out. And secondly, you say you love her "soooo" much, yet your solution is to have someone on the side? Maybe you should just end it so she can find someone that loves her for her, and that will be faithful.
Lilac

 

Yeah but the whole point is that she doesn't give a fuck. I've talked to her about it and I know shes not healthy. I've told her and she doesn't even try to go to the doctor and have her cholesterol checked which I know is really high

 

Haha for sure!
Plus... how do you know she is unhealthy? I was that size a year ago and I was healthy. Size 24 is not huge... It sounds like you're the one with the problem. Love her as she is or do her a favor and let her go...

 

Why would I let her go I love her. I know she is unhealth because she went tot he doctor a year and a half ago and the doctor told her she had to loose weight and get her cholesterol down, and stop smoking. I was joking about cheating on her I never have and never will, even though she has cheated on me we are past that.

 

Still not something to joke about. If she's that unhealthy then tell her that your worried, and get a job so she doesn't have to work so hard.

 

The munchies do add pounds........

 

exercise is so good, I try to do it as often I can and then it's alot more fun to having a buddy with you.