When did you first???

Real eyes that you were queer?
Come out about it?
Have your first "gay" experience?

I'm just curious about other peoples you know, stories...

 

I got kicked out of a Catholic school in 6th grade because I was holding hands with another girl and the principle said I was causing a disturbance...

The first person I ever dated was a girl named Krystal. I fell for her really hard and that's when I first had thoughts about being queer. I was 13 years old.

I told my brother, who was going through the same thing at the time, and I tried telling my Dad, but he was unsupportive.

I never even kissed her, but I was so crazy about her. And she broke my little heart.

Years later, I met the love of my life in the Army, and told my family about it. Although they are not supportive, they aren't unsupportive, and they don't look down on me for it.

 

I kinda knew something was different with me since I was in the first grade. I always wanted to be close to other boys in school but didn't have a name for it. Then there were those troublesome dreams when I was 12. I finally did something about it when I was 19. Felt completely right. Instinct took over. Nuff said...

 

I consider myself to be straight if not bi-curious. I had no sexual thoughts towards other men whatsoever until a few years back when i was randomly propositioned via another website, I ignored the proposition at the time but it triggered something and I started to become really curious about being with another guy.

A year or so after I arranged to meet up with a guy via another website, we met and only kissing/oral etc but no intercourse, was a little nervous at first but once it got going I started to really enjoy it. Afterwards I felt dirty and disgusted initially but found myself thinking about the whole event while masturbating in the preceeding days and still do occasionally, it is the one and only gay experience I have ever had but find myself occasionally looking around for guys online but I am just not attracted to many at all which is part of the reason why nothing has ever happened since.

Nobody I know knows about that experience and I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years now happily.

 

I was fascinated with other boys' penises from the time I started fooling around with a neighborhood friend. I'd guess we were seven or eight. We'd mainly just "examine" each other and lay on each other, pressing our little hard-ons together. One time I asked this friend if I could "kiss" it, meaning his penis, but he wouldn't let me.
When I was ten, a cousin and I started fooling around, he being the same age. We'd take turns taking each others dick in our mouths but not really sucking or anything, just having it there. We didn't even know what blowjobs or homosexuality were. We just knew it felt good and since we were sure it was "naughty" it was fun! I still remember the first time I had him in my mouth, how good he tasted and how good it felt having an erect dick in there. It's always felt natural and wonderful to me to fellate another man. And although I was somewhat sexually conflicted for a time as I became sexually aware, as soon as I learned about bisexuality, I knew that's what I was. So I'll have to say that I knew I liked same sex encounters before I actually even knew what sex was.

 

started to question my sexuality about 2 years ago in 6th grade...came out to a few of my close friends on Halloween this October, and they are totally awesome about it...haven't had a real first "gay experience" yet...kissed a girl during a kissing game at a party in December...she is bi too, but other than that, I'm awaiting that day.

 

Realized it at 12
Had my first gay experience at the same age.
Came out around 14

 

It happened by accident (well as strange as its sounds). It was 4 years ago. I went to a party and drunk too much. I had a black-out and the next thing I can remember is kissing around. First I was scared but then it kind of felt good and I let it go. Later I experienced it without alcohol and I realized that it was good.

 

realized it when I was like 12, didn't make it with a dude till I was 14.

 

Well, you're probably not gonna believe this, but I was 2/3 when I realized I was gay!

 

Well, knew I was different from the other guys by 6, huddled in with the girls usually instead of playing games with the guys, first crush on a guy was around then

Worked out by the time I was 8, the best way to get the attention of an adult male was to imitate his favourite daughter


As for sex, well I went to high school back in the days before the net, or mobile phones for that matter, didnt know any gay people, didnt really grasp what gay was. The guys in high school I was with all had girlfriends and were alpha male types, neither me or them were anything like the lame stereotypes on TV (which is all I really had to go by). So back then I thought every guy had a special male friend, just no one ever talked about it and after high school we all went off picked a girl, married and had babies. so didnt even register what gay really was till after high school

 

i am straight, but i and me friends went to a friend house party and drink alot of beer and all of us we got intoxicated and me and 5 friends sleeping on top of each other the next morning when we awoke (trust me i am straight)

does this meen something at all? cuase i dont like men sexually and not atracted to them at all.

 

Yes, it means you were all stoned and fell asleep in an awkward position. If you already know you're straight why would it mean something?

 

I realized that I was gay shortly after I reached puberty at the age of fourteen. Yes, I was a late bloomer. I was walking behind this one guy, going from one class to another, and I noticed how nice his butt looked in his tight jeans.

I first came out about my sexuality when I was nineteen.

I first kissed another guy when I was twenty, but I did not have sex with another guy until I was twenty-one.

 

I started to question it on meeting of a friends friend. He was gay, and it seemed to fascinate me in such a way. It was weird, as I was about 14 and I had only really associated my lust so far for women, but at that age I still hadn't come to terms with sex with them. It was almost platonic lust, if that even makes sense.

So with the notion of homosexuality burning in the back of my mind, and by the time I had a girlfriend, I realized that sex felt uncomfortable. So I perused men, which just felt correct to me. I was around 16 when I had my first gay experience, and that was due to me loitering clubs alone.

I still can say I find a woman attractive, but I have no romantic/erotic connection with them.

I cannot say I am still fully out yet, still some of the more judgmental of my family do not 'officially' know, But I told my mother and sister when I was 20, ish.