I have no social life.

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I have 2 close friends at my beach house. I see them most weekends.
During the week I never see anyone outside of school other than a friend I carpool with, sometimes. And another I see when I don't go to the beach.

I mean I am pretty popular at school, I am not weird or anything.
but I can never really make any close friends at school because I live far away from school, and I am gone most weekends. I hate most people my age, I am smarter than most and they come off as dumbasses. The friends I have at the beach are 3 and 5 years older than me. I also hang out with my dad a lot, not like lame kiddy stuff, but just chill and talk sports or whatever at our bar, or on the peir or something.

(sorry if I don't make sense, I'm typing on iPod)

 

This is me.

 

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I loved your other post btw.

And your sig.

 

thank you.

 

I also have but 2 friends nearby who I see maybe once a week if that, and otherwise I am a loner.

If I wanted to I could just become better friends with people at work and school and whatnot, but I like my alone time. I haven't really met anyone other than those 2 friends who I could see myself being good friends with.

 

I'm like that too, all week I come home from school and chill. On the days I work I get some social time in with fellow co-workers, but other than that I don't do much. On weekends I hangout with some friends but yeah, I don't have much of a social life either.

It's not really all that bad...

 

Having a social life..or at least an active one can be vastly overrated

 

nero, what's your sign are you a Pisces?

 

i am taurus.

and it does fit me well... i'm very stubborn...

 

It is a fact that in order to know who you, and to develope who you are, you need to spend some time by yourself..Its the only way to get to know yourself..

 

True speak.
The reason you don't have many close friends is because they are few and far between, plus you are still kinda young.

And just so you know, I know a lot of people here where I live, and I mean a lot. I wouldn't call one of them a friend.

 

Eh, Don't force yourself to have an active social life. I have friends that I can actually relate to and talking freely with and only meet them like twice a week also, besides that I'm in a school with folks I, like you think are complete morons as well. I also see how desperate some folks are just to be cool, or be able to sit with certain folks at like say a lunch table. I'd say just keep being yourself, find people who you actually think are kool and like being around and don't force yourself just so you can fit in any group.

 

i have two good friends i see maybe 2 or 3 times a week and we chill and such.

i got a friend from school but hes always working so dont see him much outside school

and my other friends i never see.

so i got 2 or 3 buds as well. thatsa bout it.

 

This is your problem right here. Learn to have fun not everything is an intelligence pissing contest. Saying stupid things on purpose can be enjoyable for everyone in the convo.

 

lol you have twice the social life as me, my friend.

walk it off.

 

dang, I wish I had a beach house! I don't have much of a social life myself. I like having close proper friends and I don't know anyone who has more than 5 good friends. I don't see the point in wasting my time having lame conversation with people I'm not going to develop true friendships with. I like spending time alone and being with my few close friends and family. I do however, feel a lot of pressure to be more social, but thats the media for you!

 

I think a busy social life is difficult to maintain. When you have too many friends they don't always understand when you already have plans, or you need to finish school work and so on. It gets easily overwhelming trying to keep up with too many people.

 

nah nah nah, i worded that wrong.

with my friends we're as stupid as we could possibly be at times. we act immature and dumb for laughs, it's just the people that act like that 24/7 that piss me off...

 

i never complained about not being very social either.

 

A social life seems difficult its just hard when you want to be alone but others expect you to come to this or that. I dont trust many people and I like having just some close friends other than that, I appear sociable. I just like my alone time a bit to much. Nero, just don't worry about it as long as your happy with your close friends. Maybe you want to make more time with them. Gook Luck.