The most ignorant gay question, imo

Not everybody needs to like everything. I like some change but not everybody does it.

As well as not everybody is straight, not everybody is versatile.

And if you don't like the question if you are top or bottom, well then make a big smile and answer that he will never know (unless he is hot, then you can suggest him to find out by himself)!

 

I hate that question and I always say "I'm versatile baby." I used to think the anal thing was painful but I learned how to relax and for me it's incredible to share that with someone I care about and see the expression on his face because I've got that power. It feels fantastic too! For the record, there are plenty of versatile couples. I can't imagine locking myself into one "role" for the person I love. That's the beauty of gay male sex: Whatever someone does to you, you can do it to them. One more thing, male-female relationships are not that cut and dry either. Even Kinsey was surprised to learn the truth in a lot of hetero marriages. Gays didn't invent strap ons. And trust me, there are a ton of straight men who love anal action.