My mom once told me to, "don't mess around with girls that hang out on the railroad tracks." That made me want to hang out with them even more!
The "advice" my mom gave me was mostly about birth control, not really about sex per se, except the standard stuff about not letting anyone pressure me, etc, etc. Our conversations were more about dealing with men in general than about sex. But I do remember one time she told me how to talk dirty during sex ... then we had to stop cause we were laughing so hard and daddy wandered in asking what was so funny.
The only thing I remember her saying was that a girl might say she's on birth control even if she isn't, so I should always make sure to wear a condom to be sure. I didn't realize until I was older that she meant a girl might try to trap you by getting pregnant...kind of old fashion I guess. No a days that probably wouldn't work in a lot of cases because the boy wouldn't feel trapped.
Mine never gave me any information whatsoever (besides being obsessed with me being sure my husband knew I was a virgin on my wedding night. Every single bit of information I had about sex came from romance novels, internet porn, and the one non-virgin friend I had. She started accusing me of having sex with neighborhood boys when I was 12 and didn't let up until I moved out of the house. I lost my virginity at 18, after much thought and discussion with the boy involved, with the use of both a condom and the pill. If I wasn't so smart and responsible, things could have been a hell of a lot worse with the complete lack of information I was given.
If you have sex on a boat at sunrise the 2nd monday of the year, you won't get pregnant.That one dos'nt work.My mom didnt say that, some dude did.
She told me: Guys only want one thing, and wait until you're married. I found out about penetration from my big sis... at 14. For the longest time I thought you just kissed and made out naked in bed. When I was like 9 or 10, I would hear my mom talk about people in church who were trying to have a baby. I was like: "What do you mean they're "trying"?" 'Cause I was under the impression it just "happened" when you were married. She didn't quite know what I was asking and avoided the question. So I pressed on. "You know, what do they do to "try"? Doesn't it just happen?" 'Cause I would hear about couples in church "accidentally" getting pregnant and it would be a surprise to them. She kind of gave me a weird look, but didn't answer. Man, I was a sheltered child.
I wasn't told shit. Apparently WS had more common sense to ask questions, but I never even thought of the right questions to ask. I must have been 14 or 15 when I found out about penetration, from the same sister. I had no idea I might have any use for a penis. . . I thought you got pregnant by sleeping together, literally. Parents that don't tell you important things suck.
^ Well, if he doesn't bring them and she doesn't want to get pregnant she'd probably be glad if she did bring some or she wouldn't get laid that night.
