No there is no way you can change his views. Dont smoke in his house, if your under his roof it's his rules. o Just do good in school and stay out of trouble and keep smoking, just don't get caught. If he's going to drug test you sometimes cant you just piss in a water bottle and keep it for when he's gonna test you? make sure the piss in the bottle is clean though lol.
I think he'd notice if it was room temperature piss. Also he makes me keep the door open in the bathroom and stands outside of it. I'm looking for a job now so I can save up and move out this summer.
Remind him of your situation the next time you see the brainwashed hypocrit take a drink. He's KILLING himself, you're altering your concious. You'll never get it through to so many people - they are completely brain fucked and nothing more. The gov't is proud of the job they did on folks like that. Sorry, he's your dad and all, so you got to have love and respect, but somethings between fathers and sons will just never be agreed upon. Don't hate him for it, but use his hatred to drive your desire. Learn all you can about your chosen drug. Prove to him that it won't make you stupid or a loser. Carry a good job, buy a house and car, get hitched, raise babies, all while smoking dope. Maybe then he'll at least have a little respect for you. That whole "disgust me" thing is outrageous - he's doing more damage to your emotions than you are doing physically by talking to you like that. Cops just can't see it though - they're blind to anything that doesn't come from the top down.
Let's put it this way. I smoke heavily, daily. I have a good job, salaried, vacation time, bene's, the works. We have a house that we bought, I've built a house (for the most part on my own but lost it due to a job loss), have two newer vehicles that are paid off, and two rippin' smart kids. My 5 year old has been reading since he was 4 and can already do addition/subtraction. His teacher is blown away by his skill level. Our 11 month old is following right up behind his big brother - you can see it in their eyes how they are thinking about things - cool to watch if you know what you're looking for. I don't ask parents for money, unless it's REALLY bad. I blow glass, restore decks and powerwash houses on the side. It's all a matter of HOW you conduct YOURSELF. Don't let the pot lead your life, you lead your life and smoke the pot. It will give you insight to apply, but not to control your life. Best of luck, sorry if I sound like a dick, I'm just really really passionate about my weed.
I've been slowly getting through to him. Now the only argument he can make without me making him look like a moron is "It's illegal, and it can easily land you in jail" Though he will still occasionally claim that some of my statements are "liberal bullshit" not as often though. I got him Emperor Wears No Clothes for Christmas... i dunno how serious he'll be about reading it though. Also, it'd be kind of hypocritical for me to bash him for taking a few sips on rare occasions when I do it more than he does =\ And I admire your success along the cannabis smoking, you put a good name out there for weed smokers everywhere. I told my dad that the founder of Apple smoked pot, and he said when I'm as successful as him he'll be okay with it lol. Thing is though, money isn't really important to me. He thinks having money means being successful, while my idea of being successful is being happy. He doesn't get that though =\
Money sucks... But unfortunately, you do need to have a little to get by. Unless your going to be living/working in a comune. I try not to take the money part seriously. Just give me enough to pay my bills and have a little bit that I can sneak for myself once in a while. I'd rather have a homestead in the middle of alaska somewhere, but I've got a family to think about. So I just scrape on by and have as much fun as I can. Seems easier that way. I'm basically a 30yo adolescent and I happen to like it that way. Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke. Joke'll be on them in the end after having stressed over it and finally died of a heart attack when the stock market fell through. Not that I wish the financially smart any harm, but it really does seem pointless to me, I agree with you completely.
I just need enough to live happily, and from what I can tell, it's usually the people with a lot of money that are usually the unhappy ones. Fuck big houses, i want a small cozy home. Fuck expensive cars, I just want something reliable.
Well just to make a short statement, twang really can't say anything about his father's drinking since he said his father never drinks except maybe a beer at a family gathering, and if anything going my medical science that's actually helping his health since having a drink a day is actually good for your health, especially wine
Your actually lucky, my dad knows all the tricks, he grew up smoking weed and now he hates it. He gives me the speech, just be like "ok, ok", and he'll get tired. Hope you can start tokin' soon. That's pretty fucked up thing to do. But yeah, he'd change
hahaha very fucked up...i would laugh so hard if i saw that shit. if you gave him tjhat damn much he would probably cahnge to hate them a shitload more than before because it scared the fuck out of him and he thought he was gonna die.
the only way why Marijuana is a "gateway" drug is because its illegal and you have to buy it from a drug dealer.When you'r buying it from a dealer you get introduced to other drugs and its your choice if you wanna take them or not.
im kind of in the same situation. best thing to tell him is that your done with it and tell him that you never wanna do it again and ask for his trustworthiness back. he might test you randomly, so stop for a couple of months, once he tests you, you will pass, and then you can go back to it, but don't get caught. its what i have done and it works.,,,,,U might feel like an asshole tho.