Ok, I think its desperation causing me to post here! I'm going to a party on saturday night, Me & a girl have planned on getting it on so to speak But before I get into it too much, I would like to warm her up with some fourplay. I know the basics of it, focusing around the clit and spreading the lips slightly and then tounging that, anything else i'm missing? I think I should include some fingers too ? Thanks!
just take it easy & respond to what her body is telling you, if shes really getting into it then try stroking her clit with your finger, if she seems to be enjoying it go further. or alernate stimulating her clit with your tongue & fingers, im sure you already know this but a lot of girls are super sensitive in this area and enjoy the lightest of touches. but hey, have fun dude.