LONG, Need help with the girlfriend!

So my girlfriend and I, of 8 months just broke up. She says she loves me, and i love her too, but we had a shitty beginning, and things were different. I had just got fired a week after we got together. So i was jobless for a little longer than nessacary and with it being summer time there was nothing to do but drive around. She had a job and had money. She was always offering me a tank right and left. I have had only 1 “girlfriend” but it was the stupidest “relationship” im not even going to call it that it was a friendship. We never talked but on MSN and myspace. We did hang out maybe 1 a month at a youth group thing. We never even kissed but maybe a few times. No gropping or anything. I was never confortable enough to even take my shirt off.(poor self image) I very desperate to fit in at the time was trying to get with her after we broke up. She acted all ok with it, so we went to river fest together (whole city gets together and chills on the river) Well there was a girl there that I had worked with kristy. She was beautiful, I fell in love the min. I saw her. But I had never been with someone so beautiful. She was older than me and I had never even have thought someone like her was interested in me. We started to talk a little bit, girl and boy like each other, and started to date. Well back to were I was, she was always putting gas in my car, and we were going somewhere. Well it added up to be about $400 worth, and on top of her paying for dinner and ciggaretts. I am probably in debt a grand or so. And we have fought over me not having a job before. So I got one. But my manager was a huge bitch. She gave me 6 hour weeks. Got paid every 2 weeks and had no money once I bought gas and other stuff. Then she fired the whole night staff, and got new employees. So I have been jobless and not looking until now. I was very mature then. I feel that maturity level has just hit me, and I realize that I fucked up and need to pay her back. A few days ago we talked and she said that she didn’t care about money as long as I was trying, and I am. I have applied at a few places. And this one place with immediate opens, so I have stressed this one a lot. They just don’t answer the phone when I call. But tonight we got into a figth about me not having a job, and she broke up with me. Do you think I should get a job and prove to her that I am ready to be mature, and be a real boyfriend. And try this time around. Actually take her out on dates. And not be so mean? I mean the world to her, and she means the world to me. Do you think I have another chance. Should I just move on. I don’t want to by any means. I cant picture myself with somebody else. We thought we were meant to be together forever. We were going to go to the same college. We were truly in love. We spent every day together. For 8 months straight. Do you think she might have just got bored of me. Or what??

 

I tell ya I've dumped guys for the exact same reason. She's not your bank, get a job of your own.

I'll support a boyfriend for about a month, after that your on your own. It's not my job to pay for your shit.

 

I think its stupid she spent 8 months paying for your crap.
Get a job cause you WANT one.
Not cause it will make you "mature".
I know plenty of immature people who have jobs.