:cheers2:Here is way that I discovered by accident. For a while I took the anti-depressant Paxil (only Paxil has this effect on me) I gave up Paxil and went to Zoloft because Paxil suppressed the ability to have an orgasm. It doesn't effect an erection but it damn sure slowed down my orgasm. With me it took so long to come that I got discouraged and would fake it. I Paxel is half as effective for you as for me you should be able to delay orgasm for quite a while. Tell you Dr. - If you're ;not too young he will prescribe it for your problem. Really man - It worked for me.
Define premature ejaculation. There is lots of information on the net about this as it effects a lot of men. But is generally good advice to get good at oral and foreplay in general. Generally, premature ejaculation is cumming before you even get in or as soon as you get in. Lasting only 3 -4 minutes isn't exactly premature ejaculation, though it can be disappointing to a woman if you haven't "taken care of her" first.
Absolutely - explain your problem and tell him that you were told by a friend it might help. Delayed orgasm is listed as one of the side effects - he will be familiar with it. Don't be intimidated by the Dr. if he hesitates and suggest something you are not comfortable with - such as a cream. It may not work - but it may work very well. No, I did not have the same problem you have but it effectively had the result on me that you seek - And it is sometimes prescribed for that very purpose. Just be honest with the doctor. You have a condition that adversely affects your life which is what meds are supposed to treat. Good luck. And she need not know that you require the meds. Good luck.
Premature ejaculation is disappointing to both parties. One of the most important aspects of sex is the imtimacy of being inside your partner - not just having an orgasm.
As I mentioned earlier, I have the opposite problem to Premature Ejaculation, meaning that I have to abstain from masturbation for a while before I'm likely to be having sex in order to stand any chance of reaching a climax without manual intervention. This is just one of the side effects of the medication I am on for epilepsy. It is a common side effect with quite a few medications - especially those that affect the mind, such as anti-depressants, and quite a few beta-blockers. As it happens, this is how Viagra came to be. It was originally intended as a cardiac medication, but wasn't that good at what it was initially intended for. However, it was noticed that it caused the now famous sexual side effect of both increasing the ability to achieve an erection and, as with other medications of its type, prolonging the time taken to reach a climax. It was for this reason that the manufacturers decided to develop & market this side of things.
I don't know anything about it but if it's not too expensive it might be worth a try. As I'm sure you know - a lot of those herbal online remedies are a rip off - check around for other users - maybe google "climinax complaints" or something of that sort. Good luck man. We're hopeing you can take care of this problem. Ain't this forum great - you can ask anything.
ya you could say that. I appreciate everything. And do you think that things could change for me in the future or this is how it was intended.
I don't know how old are. If you are 14-16 or 17 it will pass. As your body settles into its hormone levels it will straighten out. Almost ALWAYS does. If you're 26 or 27 you may have a problem that requires professional help.
I'd say it'a rather normal at 19 to not be able to last, you can always by though "longer lasting" condoms which have a mild numbing cream inside them.
I'm 61 so I've been around a while. You are wanting to find a short term fix because in the long run you should be fine.
........... go see your doc if all else fails. Or you can try whenever your about to cum, stop and wait for the feeling to pass. do other stuff like kissing and when its past then continue. You'll recognise the feeling and learn to stop.
I have heard products like Climinax can work. There are other things out there that can help you also. But If you are looking for a quick fix I would recommend it.
