what do you guys think

I find great comfort in the idea of reincarnation.

 

i think if you and PJ share souls, then it up to you to carry on his spirit in this realm of life. His ideas and views, his love can be carried on in that way.

if I were to ever leave Laura, I would want her to have me in that way, ya know? I would want her to carry around my spirit since she embodies what I love and shares my life and soul.

 

that makes a whole lotta sense.
thanks.

and KinkyRamona, me too.
I could see PJ having fun with pretty much any form of life. he always had fun, no matter what.

 

remember what it was like before you were born.. THAT.

 

yeah i think life is a continuum and that what we call death is simply the move out of this particular incarnation. you're with him right now in his other form in your other form. i often get this feeling of me watching myself and smiling. so if you feel it right i'm sure you'll be able to pick up on your being there with him just as he's here with you.

 

I hope I'm hanging out in the girls lockerroom for eternity. :biggrin:

I think life is ephemeral. It's short and sweet, and ultimately we'll all die and nothing we ever know... we won't take it with us.But I do know that you can do so much in life, that it will echo on in the lives of all those you touch forever.

So is it pointless when you have this gift of life to share with others for such a flickering moment? Or maybe that's what makes it so precious, and a constant reminder how important every fucking second is.

I think the thought of the people we love living forever isn't a physical reality, it's a gift of passion they gave to us which means they touched us so deeply they'll always be a part of our lives.

 

i believe in reincarnation. i believe that this life, this world is but a toy, a plaything, a videogame of experience so to speak. i get emotionally evolved, and you live through the game... but the things that happen to me in the game help me learn and grow, but don't change who i am, your essence. it doesn't make life easy, or the painful things less painful. but it does make things bearable, because there is hope. a sense of a greater purpose.

 

amen.

for our loved ones, its our responsibility to carry them on. once they feed the earth and return to gaia, their souls belong to us. If they were loved, i believe we have a choice to fuse our souls with what we saw in theirs.

 

I'm kinda interested in the shooting stars...and the being charmed despite the sadness thingy.

 

Yeah, that's the way I look at it. The afterlife is a promise with those we've loved that they'll always be a part of our lives.

 

i have no idea, i`m more scared of the way i`m going to die than death itself. i actually think we are pure energy and when we die we float free in the cosmos divided into different particles of energy and shit . we float, we float we float and then some great superior intelligent power gather together the particles and boom katplqs you are being born again into some horrible form of a human being if you were nasty enough to deserve it in you past life. and everything starts again-the so called great cycle :cheers2:

 

i think that when someone dies their anywhere in the world. and when you think about them it calls their sprit over to you and if you really try youll beable to feel them near you. i know its crazy to think but my mom died when i was little and anytime i feel my world is crashing i think about her and than i feel like shes putting her hand over my heart and telling me everythings gonna be ok.

 

Well consciousness is very different to matter( material) in my opinion.

Somehow I think there are many many possibilities beyond this world.
SOrt of like there's probably people we forgot when we got here , but we know them well , in other places.If that makes any sense to you..

Bottom line Kacie , in my opinion , try not to be too sad( yes I know thats impossible but..).I think we're here for reasons , but unfortunately dont always use our time here well( me included)

 

when I found out he had died, I stopped really being able to sleep -- so I left Colorado at 2 in the morning and drove straight through to Tulsa.

I was going to drive out to see him in January, and he was worried about me doing the drive alone -- it's about 700 miles, and there is a pretty desolate stretch of highway through eastern CO and a lot of Kansas.

so on my way out there, I kept seeing all these shooting stars, all of them shooting the same direction my car was driving. I know this sounds crazy.

haven't been seeing them in quite that concentration since, but I've still been noticing a lot more of them. they were kind of a thing between us.

and as for being charmed .. it's difficult to explain. things are just .. happening for me, as far as the amount of new friends I've made (which does not normally come easily for me; it did for him), money, random acts of kindness/nice things said by complete strangers. it's strange.

I believe he is still around, making sure I'm okay, loving me still from wherever he is.

And to everybody -- thanks for the answers.
they're helping me a lot. :]

 

I really don't know and no one can know so my suggestion is let's all kill ourselves and find out!

 

But first let's have an epic orgy and row out of this world on a river of sperm!

 

I'm not sure what I believe but I'm sure that the spirit doesn't simply dissipate when the flesh it occupies ceases to be viable... it may re-enter the world via another incarnation or it may transcend this existence and "graduate" to another world.

I'm saddened about that which inspired this thread... but it's something that will test you and ultimately temper who you are. It isn't the easier times that define our strength of character it is the tests and this is most certainly a test of yours. I'm confident that you will emerge a stronger person. Peace.

 

I think it's just the opposite; it returns to everywhere, everything. There is not one single thing in this universe where he is not, now. :cheers2:

 

That's quite an experience, there. Wow. In a certain way he is there. Good luck.