A girl im confused about??

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by kidrock12, Jan 11, 2009.

  1. kidrock12

    kidrock12 Guest

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    Ok so ages ago(last term) me and this girl dated for like two weeks. My feelings for her were mixed, I eventually broke it off with her until she said she still liked me(like really loved me). I kept changing my mind hooking up then stopping but now I still think of her but I dont know if it can work and I cant get her off my head.

    What should I do?
     
  2. BostonBill

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    Girls hate flipfloppers. You could try and call her and see what she has to say. What if she takes you back and you change your mind again? Is that fair to her?
     
  3. kmarcher87

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    Yea man, I dated this one girl very briefly (don't even consider it a real relationship) who really like me. She was sweet, funny, and just a really good person but at the time I just wasn't into her. I realized later I probably should have stayed with her. I've thought about calling her before but I don't think I could do that to her. She was great but what if I still wasn't into her? I'd have to leave again and that's terrible for her.
     
  4. tonynaturalist

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    Well ..my 5 cents here ... I believe you guys are not developing healthy relationships. One become a friend, then a goooood friend, and then gradually get into the "love affair". It seems to me that you are confusing love and sex. The reason you may not get her out of your mind could be more profound that what you think. Get back to her ... see what she has to say (like BostonBill says) and start being good friends and give time to the relationship to build ...two weeks of dating is NOT time enough to build a relationship. Be prepared to understand that she could be more mature than you ABOUT LOVE.
     
  5. tonynaturalist

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    me again ..define better ..."I cant get her off my head" ..what do you mean by that??? did I understoo you right?
     
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