In another online group there was an invite in my area for a jerk off party at a private residence. There will be gay, bi, and bi-curious guys there to jerk off together. I've never done this before and must admit I'm very nervous about attending one of these meetings. There will most likely be oral, and possibly anal there as well (from what I've read online). I really just want to go and watch what happens there. Possibly jerk off in the presence of these guys sucking each other off. Is this a safe thing to do though? Anybody who has done this, please let me know.
If I am understanding you correctly you aren't actually going to have any actual contact with other people. Sounds like pretty safe sex to me. You have to have actual contact to catch anything. OK, you could catch a cold or one of the other air born things but none of the sexually transmitted diseases live very long when exposed to air that is why they are known as STDs it is pretty much the only way of getting them. I suppose that you could take along a box of condoms just in case you get the urge to "go all the way"
Most STD's are spread thru bodily fluid, if your really scared you can get flavored comdoms for oral sex... most people don't bother. Most say your safe from HIV/AIDS doing oral, but you highten the risk of it if the guy comes in your mouth. BUT there's other nasties you can get thru oral and anal, OH and crabs (fleas that can live in your pubes) And when having anal use ONE extra safe comdom (TWO cause friction on each other and make both burst) and LOTS of lube! I thought I caught AIDS a few months ago, I went for tests and I'm all clear. I'm sure you'll be carful mate!
well man, I'd be sure to leave the address or let someone know where you'll be .. just in case, ya never know. as to "safe" if ya mean sex wise, yes you should be quiet safe if you don't participate or as snowdancer said .. take condoms in case you do get the urge to join in. regardless, have fun and enjoy yourself.
Never done it, but in the disease sense it's safe. As for the damage to your psyche... only time will tell.
