Hey guys, My boyfriend has never really gotten high, he never liked the idea of weed but he wanted to try it, so last week I had some really nice hash and we smoked a bowl. He wasn't getting high at first, so he um, sort've went WAY overboard on hits. Basically, he ended up high as a kite. He flipped the fuck out (excuse the language) and basically we just made love for two hours straight, because I couldn't calm him down and it distracted him somewhat. He was really freaked out. Anyway, he was really upset by the perception of time and that "laggy" dreamy state. It wasn't what he expected. Its been a week now, and this is the problem... He claims he is going in and out of being stoned. Saying that his mind isn't matching with reaction time, and reality. It really bugs him out that this happens at random. He says it will hit him out of no where where he just feels that intensity of being really high, and very spacey. He doesn't feel like this all the time but just in waves. At first I thought he was just overtired or stressed, but I am getting concerned, he is so bothered by it, that he wants to go to a doctor (not a great idea). Is this because of how high he got? Is he just being mental? Can anyone recommend anything I can do about this? I just want to help him so he can chill out, I have never seen anyone react like this from smoking, and I honestly am stunned. Thanks so much, Emm.
This has happened to me, at first it scared me but then, i started to like it. Its nothing to worry about, it went away for me after i stopped smoking for a week.
The first time I smoked I went overboard, I was fucking riiipped. I also felt this way. Give it some time to get outa his system and I am sure he will be fine.
why would you start him on hash? no wonder it fucked him up. he basically has 2 options, smoke more, or don't. if he wants to smoke, just go slow. if he doesn't, accept it. it usually takes more than once to get someone high the first time. circumventing that can confuse the body. you simply should have slowed him down until it hit him, like eating pot brownies. you have to wait until you can feel it before you eat more, or else it will it you like a train. get him to think about the feeling. is it more when hes moving around or sedentary? in any case, he will be alright, and remember, even if he went to the doctor, they can't do anything for him. not unless the doc has a time machine.
I felt high for about 3 days my first time, I wouldn't worry, marijuana is quite a benign substance. His biggest problem is dealing with the effects that marijuana does present.
thanks for the quick responses, I honestly didn't mean to get him that high. He doesn't care for it, but he really wanted to experience being high. This was our second and last shot, the first time he didn't get high. I am glad to see that this has happened before, and he's gonna be alright. I'll tell him he's not alone and that it will pass. I honestly didn't mean to cause harm or force him to smoke, I hope nobody got that impression from my post. I care a great deal for him. Thank you, again.
The first and the third time I ever smoked were insane- the first time was generally pleasant (but the only time I got hyper while high), and the third I bugged out. After that, I might have brief negative lapses, but overall have loved smoking.
my first and second times sucked baaaaad!!!i was 16 i think at the time.the first time i got a bag for helpin a dude push his truck out of the street.split it with a friend i knew that smoked and had him roll mine for me.i smoked the whole thing myself at once.then i did or should say tried to do a tune up on a 78 olds.it literally felt like it took 2 days to do it when i only did it in like 45 minutes.freaked me out. the second time i was 18 or 19.my supposedly "best friend's" niece came out from NY to visit.i smoked with her and her boyfriend.then i found out i had to go 45 minutes away to any town and drive a guys crew cab ford truck back to my friends house cuz i had to work on it.omg i was paranoid as hell the whole ride back.it felt like it ttok 4 hours to get back when it took me 40 minutes. said id never do it again.and i didnt till this time last year at my "best friends" daughters 21st birthday.i was seeing my shrink too and i told him i was going to her party and getting wrecked.said i was getting drunk and if there is weed im smoking it!he actually told me to go have fun and drink all i want and smoke all the weed i could.and i did.here i am a year later a freakin pothead and lovin it.imm stoned off my ass now.i love it.i love the calming effects weed gives me.i love it when im couch locked laughing my ass off at the stupidist thing.its great.just wish it didnt hit him that hard cuz he mAy changed his mind.but he still might once he gets over the initial shock from it.he will be fine though.
this happened to me too. goes away after a while of smoking. id say after like a few months you don't really get it much.
yeah iv heard of this happening. smoking more regularly will get him used to it with tolerance or if he doesn't want to smoke again it will go away
My girlfriend was like that for about a month after the first time she smoked, and it slowly started to get better after that, then she was fine, now she smokes all the time.
You never should have started him on hash. I am a pot smoker and I don’t think I could handle hash but that’s just me
Yeah you shouldnt have started him on hash. It was probably the reason why he got so high and freaked out. I can handle hash, but I cant handle it too much. There have been times where a friend let me crash over at his place because I got into couchlock mode. But then again I dont really see him becoming a rock n roll clown and doing cocaine.
