Gf's a slut!

what makes a girl a slut and a hoar?

i just broke up with my gf of 9 months cause she told me she had fucked 10 people. she has a baby too. and she is 17, the baby is over 1 year old.

iv been with 2.
we love each other but i dont think i can go any longer with her cause of the amount of people she has been with and cause she has a kid.
i got over the kid actually its the amount of people shes fucked that sickens me.
what do yous think?

 

my gf has fucked 9 guys me bein the 9th and im aight wit that cuz i love her but the whole kid thing would freak me out at 17 yrs old but if u truely love her stay wit it man if u no thats whts right for u

 

damn dude if you dont like her dump her,if she sickens you,why are you with her???

 

What you didn't know how many people she had been with before you started dating her? So what she has been with 10 if you really loved her that wouldn't be a problem. Love is about accepting your partner for who they are not how many people they fucked.

 

yeah but comon you cant let love be that blind. there are principles

 

Ask akai-chan on this board. She'd know.

 

what she's done in her past is her business and you being her boyfriend probably shouldn't judge her for it. i'm sure you have done things in the past that could be repulsive to your girlfriend. if it bothers you that she's slept with that many people, then she obviously isn't the girl for you. my husband started having sex when he was 14. i was 21 when i lost my virginity. the only girl i had a problem with him having sex with in his past was a woman who was still supposedly in love with him when she met me for the first time and she disrespected me to my face, without ever knowing who i was or hearing anything about me.

anyway, sorry got off track.
if you didnt know how many people she had slept with before you, would you still care for her? if so, then try to get past this issue. at least she was honest with you about it.

 

she sounds ho-ee

 

dude whats her number... nah just playing, well dude if you dated her for 9months and she didnt tell you about her kid thats where it would get me. The amount of ppl she slept with, well thats not many at all, have you ever heard of free love brother. come on she 20 years old? but yeah the fact that she didnt tell you about her kid thats pretty messed up i guess. look on the bright side man 10 is less then 20, right?

 

At 17, I wouldn't be worried about how many people she slept with, but why. That's some serious damage at an early age to need that much justification of self. Instead of judging her, you might have asked what happened in her past to make her think she needed to sleep with 10 people. You're not really being a dick if it makes you uncomfortable, but there's probably a lot more going on here than you've not allowed yourself to see. And as for having a child, I had several friends in HS who got pregnant at 16-17. She may not have made the smartest decisions up to this point, but that doesn't mean she can't start. And did she sleep with ANY of these 10 people in the 9mos she was with you? That, in my opinion is what would make her a slut. Not what happened prior to you.

Love shouldn't be blind, but it does need to be understanding and open-minded.

 

I don't know if its just me or what but how many people my girl was with before me has never really bothered me. I know that I have been with quite a few so I guess that's why. I don't even think I have asked a girl that question in years lol. What I'm saying is who cares how many she was with before you she is with you now so you can either enjoy it and be happy or dwell on the past that you can't change anyway and let it eat you up. Good luck with that decision! Have a good one

 

It should only matter how many she has been with since she met you. If it was a big problem, you should have asked before. We all have done things in our past, we wish that could be changed. However, we all have different comfort levels. At the very least, you should talk to her about your feelings.

 

So what is "top end" for you? I mean does a girl reach a point where she has to say "well, I'm at my limit, I guess I'll never be having sex again."?

And yes, sometimes babies happen when people have sex, they do not make one a slut or a whore...

 

HA I got you all beat my ex became a call girl prostitute.

 

you really should slap the bitch on her whorish mouth

 

my ex rather be a bitch and hang around assholes than be around someoen that cared for her go figure>. Girls r dumb as shit

 

Sounds like you could have her help you out during this economic slump, put her out on the local corners for ya!

 

Oh man ya know I offered tohelp her money wise and offered herto come back and live with me. She refussed me on aevery level

 

I agree. My wife was a complete slut before I met her, she has fucked hundreds of men and women but she always protected herself because she it terrified of getting stds. But I have my flaws to no one is perfect.