Ok... if you're eating a girl out and her clit is ALWAYS twitchy, it's impossible to make them orgasm. My girlfriend has never had an orgasm before, and the few times i've eaten her out (Since we've only been together 2 months) she is always extremely twitchy. I don't want to think that she's unable to have an orgasm.. so what should I do to potentially make her less twitchy so that she can actually approach an orgasm? (My ex girlfriend only twitched when she wasn't "ready"... not enough blood or whatever. But the second the twitching went away, she would build up for a few minutes and have ridiculous orgasms.) Do I need to tease her more? More foreplay BEFORE I eat her out? I see her once every few weeks, so we don't have much time to experiment with what works and what doesn't, which is why I wanted to come here. I'm also PRETTY sure it's not me.. because i've been able to make every chick i've been with orgasm.. I've just never had such a difficult vagina Thanks people!
I am relaxed and i'm VERY gentle. And I have told her to tell me what feels good and what doesn't, but she's still twitchy. I mean really... I've licked "gentle" for 15 minutes without the twitching going away. And eventually you have to pick up a little bit of speed to reach climax. Do you think I need to lick her clit OVER the hood? It kinda sucks knowing you can't please someone the way they want to be pleased. Granted she's never been pleased that way before... but it makes a person feel pathetic knowing they can't.
lol i'm sure she'd love to cuddle. However... she is mad that she can't orgasm because she really wants to. The only problem is that I see her like 5 days out of a month, and it's kind of hard to dedicate time to TRYING to see what works for her. I just wish she would masturbate or something so she can get used to it and actually know what she likes. lol I guess we'll find out in another 3 weeks when I actually get a chance to try a new "technique" of eating her out.
some girls have extreme sensitivity there and if you are really just focusing mainly on the clit, then she could be twitching because of that. i would suggest playing around that area.
I can work on that. However... eventually won't she need more clitoral stimulation to be able to actually REACH an orgasm? Thanks
