Making the first move

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by bigmannn, Jan 1, 2009.

  1. bigmannn

    bigmannn Member

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    I've hooked up with a few girls throughout my career. Now that I think about it though I have never made the first move on any girl. I am sure this is restricting me to getting some. So what are some ways to let a girl know that you would like to get it on/or your about to make a move?

    And yes I am prepared for alot of sarcasm such as "PULL OF YOUR PANTS!!!1" but any real suggestions are appreciated!
     
  2. MrBDNice

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    wisper some shit in her ear or kiss her. always works like a charm for me. pullin your pants off would be some funny shit.
     
  3. aspirine

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    Actually, I usually figured that a male does not notice the female until the female has decided that she wants him to notice her.
    That plus the realization that females are far more interested in sex than males pluss

    The attitude that all women are sluts and it is just a question of if they will be slutty with me

    Got me laid quite a bit.

    Tom Lykus is not to bad either.
     
  4. Spud

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    A few techniques have worked for me over the years. First, you have to be willing to take chances and be prepared for rejection.

    The easiest approach would be to say to the girl, "do you want to get it on?" It's the basic question and most times, requires only a simple yes/no response. If the answer is no, then move on to technique #2.

    Technique #2 - Ask her if you can kiss her. If she says yes, then you are on first base. You probably know how to get to second from there.
     
  5. stigmerica

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    The first time make it "funny" and/or "cute," as well as brief. Hang out with her enough to where a kiss on the cheek or something like that would be acceptable and point to something imaginary (or not) and act all excited and tell her to look at it and then kiss her on the cheek or something along those lines. That would also give you an idea of where you're at.

    If you're talking exclusively about something more sexual then I'd suggest that when you're with her (not in public) just hanging out watching TV or something like that, just rest your hand on her thigh and leave it there and try to get a sense of how she feels about it, whether you have to look at her and smile for a sec or not -- whatever. Better yet would be to (if it's an option) cover the both of you up with a blanket or some pillows or something like that, as she will way more comfortable / secure about it. If you're getting a positive vibe from her then just gradually move your hand up her thigh and go from there; at that point she'd definitely let you know what the deal is.
     
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