Well, I'm 20. Junior in college. art major, concentrating in computer arts. I'm not a virgin. I'm barely not but I am not nonetheless. I don't date. or rather I can't get myself to the point of dating. I've had one girlfriend once in my life and that was only for one month. Over the past couple of years it's been slowly getting to me more and more. I've gotten to the point where I just don't even try anymore. If I look at someone I automatically tell myself no. I don't know how to get to the point of dating and I can't seem to muster up the will to even try. any thoughts?
Aww c'mon dude. Your young and have a good head on your shoulders. What's the problem? Are you just not confident enough or maybe suffering from a little anxiety? Your in your prime dude. Now get off the computer and go meet yourself a girl who would love to be spending her time with you. The fact that your "almost" a virgin should only help your cause. Chicks love a guy who hasn't been all over the block. Your dream girl is waiting. You just have to put your fears aside and go get her. BE CONFIDENT!
If it were so simple I would have done it already. changing your mindset and figuring out how to for once start a relationship isn't as easy as understanding the problem. Thank you for the encouragement however. (^_^)
wait a year until you are 21. go to a bar, find the chick thats really really trashed. tell her you want to put it in her butt. this works 3 out of 7 times for me but im really attractive, so yea... k really though, you are in college. college is like a poontang farm. its everywhere. join a club and make friends. seems to me like you wont do too well with being suave and using a pickup line or anything like that. make friends with chicks that have a similar interest. it'll happen naturally.
dating happens naturally for most people. it doesn't happen naturally to me. saying what works for you doesn't work for everyone else. things don't happen naturally for me. ever. 3rd year in college. I have plenty of female friends. you think it ever happened naturally? no or this post would not exist.
not sure what girls you know. being "cute" doesn't get any girls I've met. Being cute gets you to the point of friend. the thing is, once you're set as a friend there can be no more.
Dude, nobody here is Dr. Phil. The only thing we can do is try and help you to be more positive. You keep coming back with negative energy. If you really feel that something is really wrong with you, then you should probably see a professional about it.
rent the all time classic on DVD - Animal House, if nothing else you'll get a kick out of it. Pledge a frat house, put yourself out there. you can't fish if you don't throw out a hook. College should be party central. I'm not telling you to go hump on the first girls leg that you see, but that would be a good ice breaker. I know being rather shy is a bitch but you are going to have to break out of your shell. I did, and I did make a ass out of myself at times but you know, I got over it. and you will too.
