Yeah, so I persuaded her to let me in the backdoor during her period this week. Good New Year gift. So far we've done it three time. It feels fantastic, believe me. Too fantastic. The first time I literally blew as soon as I got my bellend in. The second time I had to keep withdrawing and still only managed to last about 2 minutes. Last night I lasted about 3 minutes. Her arse is tight! Even though I've lubed it up and fingered it for a good 10 mins before inserting each time, it's still felt like squeezing a camel through the eye of a needle. I really don't mind her being tight. What bothers me is I cum too fast. Is this common? Is this something other guys out there experience? Any tips, advice, humour etc. much appreciated. Cheers
Jack off and cum about 30 minutes-an hour before you do it then you'll be less sensitive. I've never done anal with a girl yet but I bet I would blow my load before I even put it in. I bet I would blow my load the moment she says "yes". lol
I get a lot of my sex dates from online Swinger Sites, and a lot of the time I get to break it guys who are virgin to Gay sex, and I give them exactly the same advice. Even if they don't think they are going to be prone to premature ejaculation, masturbate to ejaculation a couple of hours or so beforehand, as it's not just the physical sensation that triggers things, but the excitement of mental arousal. There was a time I was with one guy who shot his load as soon as his pants were down, without so much as either of us laying a finger on him. By masturbating beforehand you lessen the tension allowing additional physical stimulation to be required to bring about the release. Of course, the time required between the preparatory masturbation session & the actual event can also vary greatly, so that has to be left entirely in your hands - so to speak.
I have yet to try anal as well, but I would assume the sensation, though different, as is sexually arousing to the likeness of your first few times having vaginal sex with a woman. It takes time to get use to it so you're not as excited. Like has been mentioned masturbating beforehand will help 100%, at the least you should last twice as long if you masturbate an hour or so before. In my opinion the more cum you have the better the orgasm, so I suggest you practise more. :cheers2:
Lucky you, heheh. My g/f is really really tight as well, which is a problem as it kinda hurts her whenever we have tryed, we have given up now because she's 8 months pregnant, so positions are akward, lol.
