emotionaly healthy to think of FRIENDS of the opposite sex

is it healthy emotional or mentally to think of friends or love interest when wankin it

 

It's definitely not uncommon, so I'll say yes and no.

 

ive done it plenty of times b4 and i dare say i will again. usually what happens with me is i will be laid in bed stroking myself and thinking about how hot that girls is and imagining i am having sex with her. but then the next day i will end up talking to her and it will be really awkward because seeing her will just remind me of how much i enjoyed jacking off over her the night before. after a few times i get used to it but when its a different girl it starts over. i dont think there is anything wrong with it, it just gets a bit weird from time to time

 

LOL! I had a friend that I used to think of sometimes, and one night we were hanging out, had a little too much to drink, and i told her. Not only did she love that I thought of her, but later she would give me things to think about (very vivid pictures). It got her really hot as well!

 

No, that's perfectly normal and not emotionally unhealthy.

 

i had a dream bout cumming on my best friends panties while she was in them,no worries

 

There are NO RULES concerning a man or woman's fantasying whilst masturbating, none at all.

 

I always think of female friends that I have when I masturbate. In fact it does much more for me than watching pornography does. I normally imagine that they are the ones who are jacking me off, sometimes I think about actual intercourse, and in rare instances I think of doing things to their "women parts".

That said, I don't even feel slightly strange about it when I see those same girls the next day or at some other time. What I do with myself, in my own mind, doesn't really have any real world ramifications. I can still function normally and respect those girls that I also find really attractive.

 

same here,fantasize bout chick friends all the time

 

There are a few guys from school that I think about regularly...

 

I think it's very normal - we both do it all the time. There are times when she'll catch an eyeful of a guy that's attractive to her - and later when she's on top of me, she's making love to me but definitely fantacizing about having sex with someone else. You can just tell - she's going unusually wild, looking at the ceiling, and not looking me in the face. Fun stuff!!