KY would work fine, and petroleum jelly is a cheap but effective. This is what I hear around the gay bars at least....
Yeah I was thinking the same thing, why does this thread say "for girls only"? I'd wager a lot more men buy anal lube than women. Anyway, to the OP: since there are no sex shops near you, go to a place like Jiffy Lube - this is the "anal oil" you want: Just stick that long tube in and fill'er up.
haahaha. yes, i'd give the guys a chance to answer too. You don't have to go to a sex shop, all pharmacies and supermarkets sell lube. its best not to use petroleum jelly or anything oil based because it can increase chance of infection.