Giver or taker?

When it comes to oral sex, do you prefer to give or receive? Do you usually feel subjected to give or do you do you enjoy it?

 

C'mon now people, I'm dying to know!

 

I love them both. A man licking me is the quickest way to make me orgasm, other than me doing it myself.

I love to suck a man, too. Love the soft velvety feeling of his cock head in my mouth ... mmmm

 

Getting a blowjob from the wife is like trying to get a 5 year old to read sanscrit - just isn't going to happen. She used to, but since we've had kids she says it's nasty.

I go down on her every time we have sex though until she cums. Just because I'm a nice fuckin' guy like that. And I enjoy it.

 

Both, but my favorite is giving. Mm mm mmm.

 

both. i really couldn't say what i like more.

 

I like giving

 

I like giving, dislike receiving.

 

If she refuses to do oral you should do the same.

 

with the ex I was always the giver, and he was always the taker...he tried going down on me once for less than 30 seconds and changed his mind, but he still expected me to give him head just about every time I saw him....meh...I'm so happy I got out of that

 

Couldn't agree more!

 

I'm definitely a giver. I love to please a woman. I could stay there until she tells me she's had enough. It drives me wild to listen to her orgasm. It's a thrill to feel her trying to close her trembling legs on my head, only to fail. I love lapping up her juices. :drool5: If she is content and wants to reciprocate at that point, then great. I even had one girl who wouldn't go down on me but that didn't stop me from going to town on her. I used to be selfish when I was younger and always want, want, want. Not anymore. I am just as turned on by seeing her pleasure as I am getting my own. Yup, definitely put me down in the giver category.

 

i'm all about both.

i realy like it when a man can hit the right spot with his tongue and drive me wild.

but i do enjoy giving head as well, driving the man wild hitting all the sencors in the head of the penis and then sliding my tongue down the shaft, and eventually deep throating as much as possible. mmm.. just thinking about it makes me hot.

 

I disagree, decreasing the combined pleasure (his plus hers) doesn't seem worth it. Even in the name of "fairness".

As I understand the situation:

He likes giving, he gives
She doesn't like giving, she doesn't give
He likes receiving, he doesn't receive
She likes receiving, she receives.

Current situation 3/4
Proposed solution 1/4

I think the current is the better of the two.

 

I deffinately prefer to go down on my lass than her going down on me, perhaps its cos its one of the few things in the bedroom i'm good at lol!

The situation is kinda upended because she dosent particularly like me going down on her regularly, yet seems to love going down on me. I dont mind her going down on me in the least, but like anything there is always something better...well maybe.

 

I love to give more so.. there is nothing that turns me on more knowing that I am pleasing him....

 

Id rather eat snatch than breath...all though taking is nice as well

 

I love to receive but also love to give. If me and my BF can't decide who will go first, the 69 always come in handy as the solution.

 

Well, if it's going to be a simultaneous oral session, I prefer to go with the 71, with each partner having a finger up the others ass.

 

I like both

Nothing better than your tongue in a womans pussy, her hands pushing your head in deeper and feeling her squirm as she is about to cum.

Also like to have headjobs given to me, its a power thing, when a woman is giving a head job she is in control she controls the momentum.