can he get it up???

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by countrygirl, Dec 30, 2008.

  1. countrygirl

    countrygirl Senior Member

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    Just wondering if a guy can have sex with a girl, if he's not sexually attracted to her? Can he get it up? (his penis i mean) :)
     
  2. veiled1

    veiled1 Member

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    yes he can.. put a bag over her head..
     
  3. countrygirl

    countrygirl Senior Member

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    So a guy can do it with anybody....just to be doing it.
     
  4. atla23

    atla23 Member

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    yeah but why would he
     
  5. BostonBill

    BostonBill Member

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    I would have no reason to get an erection if I wasn't sexually attracted to her. It's possible to get one but I would have to be thinking about something else or someone else. That wouldn't be very fair to her. The bottom line is if someone's not attracted to someone, then the brain makes it very difficult for them to become aroused. You have to trick it and that's alot of work, lol.
     
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    be suprised what a women really looks like when your stoned..

    B4 your stoned..

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    After getting stoned..
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    EVE was so ugly GOD gave Adam marijuana.. :p
     
  7. countrygirl

    countrygirl Senior Member

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    So to get it up you would have to think of someone or something that turns you on...or you would have to be high or drunk...
     
  8. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    Well, in males, there is a difference between sexual arousal and an erectile response. Men can have an erection simply from physical stimulation. I'm sure most men have had the embarassing occurence of a boner from rubbing in your pants while walking. This is especially common in younger men. Also, any male masseuse will tell you that even hetero men get erections from a non-sexual massage. These erections are from the physical stimulation rather than a sexual desire.

    So, yes, a man can achieve penetration without being attracted, however, they will likely have trouble maintaining the erection and having an orgasm.
     
  9. Ddoright

    Ddoright Senior Member

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    From my experience Ahimsa is much closer to the truth. The strangest things can cause an erection - especially among young males. It is true that if the woman is repulsive to him it might prevent an erection altogether - but the drive to spread a man's genetic material is very strong.
     
  10. blktiger60

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    I can't. And why would I even try? Of course you have to realize sexual attraction is all in the mind. It isn't just how she looks
     
  11. blktiger60

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    I've never been that high.
     
  12. -Stevey-

    -Stevey- Member

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    Just put it in you're mouth... I swear any one who puts my cock in their mouth WILL get it erect.Period. Though it may disgust me thats besides the point.
     
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