Character assassination AKA: Don't spread rumours!

I've just found out that someone has been spreading rumours about me via instant messenger programs. Either deliberately setting out to assassinate my character, or has nothing better to do than talk about other people behind their back.

I'm not going to mention any names, but the rumour, so far as I understand, it is that I'm some type of webcam pervert, and that I was forcefully coming on to someone, maybe even going as far as forcing them to watch me masturbating via my webcam, so much so that they had to block me.

Now with all good rumours, it does have elements of truth. Yes, I've masturbated on webcam for people. Lots of people. But ONLY if they want me to. The person has to physically ask me before I turn my webcam on. And even then they don't get to see anything until I'm sure they are sure they want to.

The person in question asked me to masturbate for them. I wasn't even going to, seeing as I'd already masturbated once that day (and was having problems keeping an erection), but she wanted to watch, and I'm not one to disappoint.

The person in question also teased me a hell of a lot, taking her top and bra off, and pretending that she was going to show me her boobs, but in the end – never did.

Does this sound like someone that's in an uncomfortable position?

She's also NOT blocked me, I've spoken to her on a few occasions since via yahoo.

I don't know who's started this lie and rumour. Regardless of if it's the girl that I masturbated with, or if it's the person that told a very special friend of mine (who, being the true friend she is, told me that rumour), it's not very nice, and someone out there has nothing better to do that lie about people.

And I have no respect for that.

Please, if someone comes to you, spreading rumours about other members on the forum (about anyone) ignore it, it's not very nice.

 

Soooooooooooooo Not True!!!

 

LOL... this makes it look like she's the female in question... she's not.... she just knows that i'm not the type of person that would do this.

 

TRU!!

danny boy ROCKS!!

 

wtf... I hate rumors. And, as everyone knows, Dan rocks.

 

~ okokok...wait a sec here, while I catch my breath from laughing so damn hard....how the hell to you FORCE someone at another computer to watch you do anything? How in samhell can you force anything on someone when all they gots to do is click on the lil X..........
okokok...* forces everyone to breathe air! RIGHT NOW DAMNIT!!!!*

 

This is exactly my point.... but when it comes to rumours, people believe any old shit...

 

* sits on dan and forces him to breath!* NOW MOTHERFUCKER BREEEEEEEEATH!! NOW I SAID!!
yeah, had a few probs like that over the years too, but its harder to keep a lie going inna chatroom, hehe

 

Dude, that's fucked up. I'm sorry you have to be a victim of such slandering. Kinda makes me worry about what others say behind my back.

Dan is not a webcam perv. Well, maybe he has a little inner-perv in him, but if he does, then so do I. What I have to wonder is why someone would participate in this webcam activity just to go and spread a nasty rumor? Why? What do you have to gain? All you're doing is destroying someone's credibility. You're hurting people for your own enjoyment. YOU ARE A SICK FUCK!!!

 

I guess this is the pot calling the kettle black, right? You are quite the pervert it seems, with all of your talk of "Wanting a child...All I want is a child...I don't care you are...Let's meet and move in together and have babies! That's all that makes this world go 'round!..."

Sorry guy, but that is just fucking creepy and perverted. So don't go ragging on Dan, you pot....

Holly

 

LOL @ Michael....I just looked at Dan's posts....he is amazingly normal in the odd "normal" hip forums way. Gee he does talk alotta sex shit in real kinky and love and sex forums...imagine that...

 

With all due respect, while I do post a hell of a lot about sex, if you actully read the posts, you'll find out they are not perverted at all. I'm just very interested (sex is the whole reason we exist, if it was not for sex, you, nor I nor anyone else would exist). I'm sorry if you see a healthy interest in sex as perverted, that's up to you..

But you know full well that I'm into more than just sex, you just choose to see all the 'normal' stuf, and prefer to brand me a pervert.

 

tell em dan....tell em!!!!

 

redsmurfettehead forced me to look at the pants she was wearing on webcam

 

my pink plaid ones! haha

 

oh no0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0o0oooooooooooo.........Moose abuse!!

 

No, You aren't trying to raise an honest family. You don't have a family to raise. You're lampooning women online to be with you, to have children with you. If you want a child that desperately, why don't you help one of the under-privileged children in Seatle? Volunteer! Be a mentor! In doing so, you'll more than likely find a woman of a worthy caliber who wants and loves children as much as you claim to. Your approach is just creepy.

As far as what women want and find attractive, you have no clue. We vary, as do men. What I find sexy and appealing will not necessarily fit the woman next to me, and that's fine. I personally do like to watch a guy masturbate. I myself like to masturbate for others. However, others don't like that and it's perfectly alright.

Michael, you need to get some sort of grip on what real women find attractive and charming in potential baby-daddies...Otherwise, you'll never have a child.

Holly

 

Back off there... I don't find it gross or funny when a man (or woman) masturbates... Well, it's gross if there's an animal involved, and funny if he's wearing a clown suit... But I personally, rather enjoy watching the man I'm with masturbate...

And someone who is raising a family is quite different from someone who is laying aside the foundation of the family in order to get one in the first place, kind of like putting the cart before the horse..... which is the impression I got...

While I'm at it, talking openly about sex isn't perverted, twisting open and honest conversation into something it's not is a perversion. If one were to read things other than the Love & Sex/Real Kinky forums I bet they'd find a post or two from people who like to talk about sex, and I further wager that they'd be talking about everyday stuff. It's mind-boggling what you find on the pages outside the sex talk.

Not to mention that the whole scenario is ridiculous because as it has been pointed out, you can't very well force yourself on someone via webcam. That's what a disconnect button is for --- good gravy, are people really this dense?

Yeah, I guess they are or this conversation wouldn't be happening.

Dan -- Get naked and have a good go at it, invite everyone on the forums, abuse us all I say. Why be picky with your perversion huh??? You know I'm joking....

G.

 

You know, that's a very good point... the world is already full of unwanted children.. why do you want to bring more into the world?

 

If you are an ordained minister and already have a great record with children, why don't you provide foster care? or adopt? Make the world a brighter place for someone who desperately needs it, and exists right now?

Holly