Alright here goes; So this week has truly been one of the shittiest I've had in a while. It started with my roommate named "R", let's say the R comes from the word RAT. Well R and I have been kinda going at it for a bit. When I agreed to live with the guy he seemed great. He was cool, laid back and ANYTHING seemed better than living with the dirty ass guys I had lived with before. Oh how I was so wrong. After a little bit I started to notice little things that pissed me off but I always let them slide. I like to consider myself a laid back guy and I try no to get too stressed out. ("Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but it doesn't get you anywhere"...-Ferris; you see the general theme?") So anyway things start to escalate and we begin to argue more and more and then finally we break out into a little fight. Nothing too serious, we both threw a few punches but nothing big. After that we stopped speaking for about two weeks, which to be honest I was cool with. Truthfully, I don't even LIKE the kid anymore, so it's whatever. NOW, here's the kicker. So I get a call from my pops two days ago and...APPARENTLY this fucking kid told a friend of mine, who told another person, and another person (you get the idea) that I have a drug problem. That I'm "addicted" to weed, opiates and alcohol. Now I'll be honest, I smoke a little bit here and there (especially when I was younger), take prescribed painkillers for a surgery I had on my back recently, and drink on the weekends. So overall, the kid ratted on me, told A TON of people these rumors and above all, got my parents involved. Now, they're freaking out, everyones freaking out, talking about rehab, signed me up to see a therapist...blah blah when I don't have any type of fucking problem. "R" did everything out of spite. Now can I ask you out there, whoever is reading this... what would you do about it? Last night, when he was all drunk he broke down and admitted he should have never done it. He said he should've come to me like a man blah blah blah... fucking pussy. So I played it cool, pretended that I forgave him, but in all seriousness I have no intention of ever being cool with him again. He ratted me out and humiliated me with a lot of people. WHAT DO I DO? I'm not one to EVER be disrespected like that. If your still with me thanks, if not that's cool too but I'd appreciate any responses. See ya guys.
Why did you guys start throwing punches in the first place? That seems a little unnecessary. That was an asshole thing of him to do though, spreading rumors about you.
that sucks that he did that. but if he broke down and admitted he shouldn't have, maybe the only thing he could try to do to make up for it, is explain to your parents, etc. the whole situation. i think you should be honest with him though, not pretend to forgive him.
I guess. I mean I was so pissed when I originally wrote this I didn't even know where else to turn. I can try and be cool but...what the fuck dude. Your a lying, ratting, inconsiderate prick whom I have no intention of forgiving. I appreciate ya'll taking the time to read though. Cheers.
^^ Hmm...no I don't. You got a problem? I didn't ask everyone to respond, so if it's too long don't read it. CHEERS.
sounds to me like you need to find a new room mate. he is obviously not a good person. he had no right going around saying things like that about you. it doesnt matter even if he apologized for it because whats said is said and it cant be taken back. and plus he was drunk when he apologized so he probably doesnt even remember. so yea i think you just need to find someone else to live with
why would you pretend to forgive him when you have no intention of doing so? I wouldn't worry about the drug situation, I'd be honest with my parents and tell them you smoke a bit here and there, have a drink now and then, but you're not an addict. I might also have told them to mind their own business, considering you are a self-supporting adult. (right?) I would advise you to truly forgive your roommate, because holding resentment is only going to harm your own mental well-being in the long run, but I would tell him that I no longer considered him a friend and close that door behind me.
personally, i'd slash the dudes tires, but i'm a destructive angry asshole and i recommend against doing anything i'd do. lol. totally sucks though bro. dude shoulda kept his mouth shut.
you should jerk off on his pillow whenever you get the chance or fart on in and do other nasty things behind his back...
