I think facey took offense at your giving him unrequested advice. I do too, sometimes. It feels like trivializing a complex problem when people give me advice about my social problems. But I know you meant well. Both of you are my e-BFFs, and if you don't stop fighting I'm going to cry.
It might be different for me because I am a girl, but I have found most people to be really accepting. Sure, I got the few jerks saying things like "I feel like I have to treat you like a mental patient" or "You're fucking allergic to everything. It's annoying", but most people were and my husband is really accepting that I am a very picky eater, allergic to a lot of smells, have an anxiety disorder...and I can go on and on. Also, I had to bear in mind that I am not 'normal', so expecting to get someone who is completley 'normal' AND having a good relationship with them might be impossible.