Does anyone else just have crappy luck when it comes to relationships? I always fall for people and they don't reciprocate it... I don't understand why that is? Does anyone else have that problem? I guess I'm just waiting for the day someone falls for me hard... I have a feeling this could take awhile.
It's good to form an idea of your ideal partner - what you want in that special guy, what you want out of the relationship, don't hold back on the details, be as specific as you can. If you only have a vague idea, you'll keep attracting guys that aren't up to standards. It's like telling your parents you want a nice birthday present, but you don't tell them what to get you. On the day of your birthday, you open your gift only to be let down by the fact that the gift isn't quite what you wanted. The same goes for relationships. You attract what resonates with you. If you keep getting let down by guys, perhaps you should take a look at yourself and see what it is that's drawing these "sub-par" guys into your life. Hope that helps you out a little bit. Don't worry, your not the only one going through these problems. I'm still waiting for that special someone who'll fall for me hard. The waiting is the worst part, but sometimes all you can do is wait.
i don't think she has any problems and not even crappy luck . she's a movie star , and it won't take long til she finds a sensible farmer .
Well, if you think about what you really want in a partner, then it's likely that you'll have already gone on journey for someone like that ideal. So, it's likely that you are already in love. You just need to know when to pop the question. Or when to admit it.
I am patient... maybe to a fault and I am waiting to see if the guy I am in love with reciprocates the feeling. I do give hints and I'm pretty straightforward about what I want in a relationship and I think that he feels for me but I'm not sure, he's hard to read. We are great friends and though I would never admit to him blindly that I am in love with him.. I very much am. I loved someone before (it's been awhile) and he hurt me pretty bad and I didn't think I could fall for someone like I fell for him but I am pretty smitten with the new fella and he is far more than I could have ever asked for and is not like the former at all in any form or fashion aside from his indecisiveness... I suppose that is what I consider to be my bad luck... maybe it's just always the wrong time and wrong place. Anywho... I have come to realize that love isn't an easy thing and I accept that not everyone you love, loves you back however... I can't help but wonder why it seems to be consistent in my life that I'm not loved back. Maybe they do love me but I'm intimidating and they can't express it but I'm not hard to please... I do have a strong personality but I'm most definetly a hopeless romantic and it shows, lol. What I want in a partner is simple and yet so hard to find *sigh*
