I've been with Astrology for quite a few years now. It especially helped me understand human relationships. You know when you meet a stranger and wonder why this person seems so close to your heart? Or the irritating feeling of a friend whom you know for 20 years but still appears stranger and harmful somehow. This is especially perceived in love where two people mix most intimately. And in that case it ranges from "We've been in love for ten years now and still I'm attracted to him/her just like the first day we met." to "I love him/her more than anything but I don't want to spend my life with him/her" kinda strangeness. Astrology gave me answers to these. And ever since I've been very much into it. It helped me explain and solve many a situations within my acquaintances. And every time I'm presented with such a situation, I'm amazed how it is obeying Astrological rules. Also, Astrological insight can help avoid many a mistake that we make in our relationships and helps us build a strong communication skill. So I decided to start this topic. Post any such situation you know of or of yourself if you want to along with especially the zodiac signs, rising signs and moon signs involved. And let me or any person with knowledge of Astrology explain it and thus expand the same.
I guess you could say I’m looking for answers right now and for some reason I was brought here. I’m on a verge of breaking up with someone I love. It’s a difficult relationship in some ways we’re not very compatible, in other ways we are. I’m not sure I want to continue but I’d hate the make the wrong decision. I have been dealt with a difficult sign but I feel like he’s really the wrong choice for me. I’m a Virgo sun with Aquarius rising and a Taurus moon, he’s a Leo sun with Sagittarius rising and Sagittarius moon. Any insight is appreciated.
I noticed right away that he's a triple fire sign... passionate, larger than life, expansive, excitable. And you're more of a cool cucumber... practical, sensible, down to earth. That right there can account for some of the differences.
Well, I think you are going to make the right decision if you decide not to continue. There's nothing really compatible between you two astrologically. Whatever attraction you may be considering is external only. Virgo sun neither is negative to Leo nor positive. Sagittarius moon is has the same relationship with Taurus moon. The rising sign which projects outer core of a person has some compatibility there however. Probably, you like the person very much at a distance but as you know him better and get closer the attraction lessens. It's quite a mediocre relationship and in the long run discontinuation is good for both. I'll give it a 4 out of 10.
nope not true! earth sign stick earth signs as water signs stick with only water signs sry not compatible they should break up im being sarcastic its retarded as hell to base any relationship on astrology astrology is UNCONSISTENT, these books say this other say this and that......maybe she should just talk about her expectantion to her bf then to do any based on astrology
Astrology is not inconsistent. If you find it so is because you can't grasp it. Do you know that it is an esoteric subject? It is not meant to be understood by all. Astrology deals with things that are beyond our reach. It is a vast subject and there are many ways to study it. I agree different books say differently but essentially all is same. To understand that generality it requires skill and ability. And if you have such opinion towards Astrology why are you wasting your precious time here? Where do you get the confidence that earth signs don't go with water signs? That is utterly wrong!
First of all, using Astrology to determine whether or not to be in a relationship with someone is very misguided. That's not how it's intended to be used at all. Astrology can be very helpful to indicate HOW the energies may play out with certain individuals but it really can't tell you whether the relationship will be good or bad. Signs mix together in different ways. Some can be dynamic, challenging, provocative, harmonious, but depending on how each individual responds to those dynamics will determine the nature of the relationship. Astrology doesn't compel us to do any particular thing, it simply describes the potentials available to us. Also, sun signs only describe one aspect of the overall character. Please don't judge someone based on their sun sign in determining if you should be with them. Astrology is a TOOL, not to be used in place of your common sense and feelings.
i have a story! well there was this very rude, rambunctious and mischievous boy who use to always try and follow me around, causing trouble with my friends. his behavior never bothered me, i was just never interested, until i gave into his persistence and started talking to him. we became very, very close. i had never loved anyone as much as i loved him, and we were each others "bffs" lol =D my jealousy became too much for him though, and he found a girlfriend (he thought he was happy with), and blackmailed me - it could have ruined my whole life. i didn't get mad at him though, and we didn't talk for a very long time because i got back with an ex-boyfriend. after we broke up (again), i came back into contact with my old bff and he couldn't understand why i wasn't mad. i told him i forgave him, and that all this time we were apart, i had been worrying about him (he hangs with a bad crowd). we aren't as close as we use to be, and we don't say much except for "what's up" and "nothing much", but he won't stop trying to talk to me almost 24/7. this is surprising because he gets bored very easily, tells anyone/everyone off (especially girls who try to get close to him), and would have no problem of cutting someone loose who doesn't provide him anymore entertainment. oh, i love him so =) me: sun scorpio/moon leo/virgo rising him: virgo (i don't know the rest)
Most probably he has a Gemini or Aquarius rising (And other planets may be conflicting with your). So he appears to you like you have described. But, your sun and his has great compatibility. This is what generates that strong feeling of love between you two. Also, your scorpio sun makes you hang on to him after all that is passed. Also, you are only 17( I wonder how old the boy is?). You are yet to exhibit fully what your chart projects. Standing at a mature age, you could have viewed this relationship at a different angle.
Both your sun are very compatible. That is why. May be some of his other planets also has positive relation with yours. But really you both are at quite a young age to analyze it from astrology.
oh, i never knew that age was a factor too could you tell me more about this, too? - me: scorpio sun/virgo ascendant/leo moon him: taurus sun/gemini ascendant/taurus moon (i'm not too sure about the moon, but i'm basing it off of what i recall reading on him...) basically, it didn't work out. he wanted his stability and security, and i wanted attention (but not necessarily from him). is it our moons that aren't compatible and were messing up our relationship?
In the previous post you told me his sun is virgo and you don't know the rest. Now you come up with Taurus sun and Gemini rising!!?
Hm. In this case you don't have compatible rising .... about moon.. you're not sure ..... your sun is also not matching very much. And once again, the chemistry between two people that their charts predict considers they are adults. That means you'll have to wait a few more years to explain your relationship correctly from Astrology.
really? i always thought scorpios and tauruses got along very well thanks for your input though it's very helpful =) i'll keep in mind the adult factor next time! i never knew about that
