dependancy is a fucked up thing. no relationship can survive it as ive learned the hard way. the problem with using someone as a crutch is that when theyre gone, you fall. much like a real crutch i dont think it makes anyone happy, it makes me miserable. a fate worse than death!
I'm neutral. I think it may be that an intimate relationship can be the last remaining piece of happiness for someone. After which the other aspects of that person's life fall into place.
an intimate relationship doesnt have to be dependant. however i like the idea of two people being somewhat dependant on each other, but not one person clinging to the other.
Right- I agree 100%. Then again, I'm on the internetz discussing relationships because I don't have one. :biggrin:
doesnt it make you feel better though i hope someone jumps headfirst into your life, someone which you cant deny! and then there will be love and you wont have to discuss anything on the internet until one day you are left without a clue! which hopefully wont happen.
being around positive people in general can make you happy, so being with another person can infact make you feel more happy. There are a lot of negative people out there, even if you are a generally good natured person with a positvie attitude people around you can drag you down. So IMO, to stay happy, and positive, always try to surround yourself with the same kind of people. So yes, a relationship can make you happy, but it depends on what kind of person you are on the inside. If you are a dark/negative/narcassistic/etc person, just having someone in your life is not going to change that.
